Getting married after dating shortly, pros, cons or questions?

[Anonymous]

Me and my husband got married after a month of dating.

But we’ve know each other for 3 years and have dated for short periods of time previously. We are different in many ways, mostly lifestyle, but we get along great. We’ve only had one fight, which is good no? One of the pros in my opinion is that you when you get married this quickly you’re still in the honeymoon phase which makes you more tolerant? But that can also be a con in some ways.
What do you guys think about tying the knot quickly? Pros, cons or any questions?

[AnimosityRae]

It all depends on how y'all feel if you're ready or not. Personally for me, at times I wish I could've gone back to have waited to get married. My husband and I had dated for 3 years, got engaged within the next year and about a few months after we had gotten engaged - we decided to get married. He was in a rush to get married to where I wanted to wait but in my mind, why wait if I knew I wanted to get married to him, right? Nope! We've made it now almost two years in and there is so much of a difference when we were dating versus us married.

You may get along now but it's so different when you live with each other, being with each other ALL THE TIME and actually getting to know how the other is. There's ups and downs in all relationships but at the end of the day, you have to learn each other and how y'all are at the end of the day. So I can't say whether it's a good or bad decision to tie the knot quickly but I do say for future people, think carefully who you get married to and don't let yourselves be rushed into something that you aren't certain of. Be sure of the person you want to marry, possibly forever. Good luck to both of you! :)

[Anonymous]

got married after a month of dating. DUMB

But we’ve know each other for 3 years. DON'T CARE. STILL DUMB AND IRRESPONSIBLE

and have dated for short periods of time previously. WHY DIDN'T IT WORK OUT THE PREVIOUS TIMES? HM WONDER WHY

We’ve only had one fight, which is good no? THAT'S BAD ACTUALLY... AND NOT NORMAL. FIGHTS CAN HELP YOU TWO WORK AS A TEAM BETTER AND HAVE BETTER COMMUNICATION AFTER THE DISAGREEMENT

getting married quickly is one of the dumbest things people do in a relationship

[EmmaMary]

Sounds like this was an arranged marriage?

Did you live together before you got married?

[Asker]

No not an arranged marriage. No we didn’t live together but we were friends, hung out at eachother place etc.

[EmmaMary]

Well I do hope it works out for the both of you... Good Luck.🤞🤞