Am I ruining my marriage?

[Akam93]

So my husband thought about divorcing me on his precious trip to Seattle with his female mistress co worker who's married. Dosent like me to compare myself to anyone. didn't want to say I love you much. Or talk to me much. Am I ruining our marriage cause I don't trust him to be around her. She's 45 with 3 kids has some type of mafia dude husband. Yet my husband likes her brains, and butt I'm sure, yet has no real beauty but makes good money.

[DarkLegacy]

Im pleased this is happening and yes the marriage looks like it is over, but never mind shit happens.

[Anonymous]

No, he's ruining the marriage because he doesn't appreciate what he has.

[MsProsperity]

No you’re not. Actually you’re justified to worry about this ‘female’ coworker. Other than those signs have you seen more red flags between them?

[LazerBean]

What evidence do you have that all of that is even true?

[WhitneySnow]

If he’s cheating on you you should divorce him

[MsProsperity]

How would she know?

[WhitneySnow]

@MsProsperity I guess cause they took a trip to Seattle together? That would clue me in.

[WhitneySnow]

Plus she calls her his mistress. That implies that she defo knows.

[LazerBean]

It was a business trip though. She's posted questions like this before but has never actually given a reason to support her theory that he is cheating

[WhitneySnow]

@LazerBean oh ok

[Anonymous]

I think it's not unreasonable to be concerned, but do you have any evidence he has cheated or is cheating with this woman?

[Nahid1707]

It’s good you told him

[shortster]

It sounds like he is