I think women care more about looks than men do. Mostly when it comes to their own. Women, as you know, we use makeup, get our hair done, etc. I mean, I don’t use makeup often or do anything special with my hair because it’s a pain in the ass. If anything, I mostly just do light makeup and brush my hair to make it look decent. Hell, I’ll even straighten it. As for men, not really. Yeah they put effort into their looks but they don’t care as much.
an ugly man can still get women if he is funny. but an ugly woman will not be able to get a man if she is funny. women are more flexible with what they like.
there is a saying "women fall in love with their ears while men fall in love with their eyes"
Chris Farley one of the funniest guys ever couldn't get a girlfriend. YOU might be attracted to humor, maybe even more than the average woman. But to say "a ugly guy cab still get women if he's funny" is misleading at best and false at worst.
Let's be real here. You're saying ugly man but you're not stating how ugly. In other words what you mean is he can be not drop dead gorgeous because his personality matters. But there's a limit! It doesn't matter how funny is if he's that grotesque. There I went ahead and said it for you so you don't have to feel shallow saying it 🙂. You're welcome.
if womens looks didn't matter, then why would it only be women wearing makeup, getting surgeries, overspend on fashion, wear heels that give them painful bunions, anxorexia / bullimia strictly only affect women?
you don't see men doing all of this.
because at the end of the day, mens looks do not matter nearly as much
OK, don't bring your own personally insecurities into this. First off we were talking humor and women's attraction to men. Now you're talking about something completely different. I'm sorry you're insecure. But what does that have to do with anything when it comes to being attracted to guy and whether humor plays a role.
Wow that was a quick lashout. Apparently. I hit that nerve right in the sweetspot. Hun, just Tru not to blame all men for this insecurity. Let me tell you since you're really young. Not a guys will find you attractive. That doesn't mean you're not attractive. Love yourself. 🙂
Good for you! That's the spirit. But I don't know why you think your value will decrease. A good woman will always be a good woman. I think you really need to work on your self worth.
I think mens value will decrease too as he ages. But its just that there will always be more women than men who put less emphasis on a looks. Personally, for me, a man's looks definitely does matter. But by the time I'm 45, I would lower my expectations. For right now, I will sleep and flirt with as many hot young guys as I can.
Wow, if that's the way you really think I feel bad for you. Because your connections will always be about ankle deep. But I think you're just angry and thinking this is somehow insulting me. I wish you luck. I think you're going to need it. I hope someday you get passed this anger.
I don't even know if I want to date when I hit my 40s. Because I wouldn't be attracted to men older than me. Very few guys in their 50s are attractive. Its non existent for guys in their 60s
It might explain why older people go on so many fewer dates than younger people. Its cuz young people don't want old people. Even old people don't want other old people.
Well since you're young I'll clue you in. When you're young dating is pretty simplistic. When you get to be age you actually have a beief structure you know what you like what you don't like and what you're willing to tolerate. As people age the have more baggage is all.
Because the truth is, vast majority of young people aren't attracted to old people. Nobody likes your baggage either. You like to say that I'm saying this cuz im angry. But I think thats just your defense mechanism.
Well but that's the difference though. You care what I have to say. But I really could care less what you have to say. Because you're young and inexperienced and have nothing to teach me. I'm just trying to help you. Try to twist it if that makes you feel like you have some power.
Its definitely possible to be young and experienced or wise beyond your years. Its just that old people tend to be the most ignorant since they assume they've reached a certain age, then they assume they must know everything and be correct about everything.
Who'soffended? You made a point I refuted it, it made you mad and then you've spent about 40 post trying to put me in my place. You keep changing the subject expanding trying to make some point but you just dig a deeper hole. 😆
No hun we concluded you were angry long before you stated that you weren't attracted to old guys. Who you're attracted to has little to do with your anger issues. Your self worth does.
Flexible you say? Yet you failed to point out that a broke girl can get a guy if she's just fertile but a broke fertile guy can't. And you think theyre more flexible which is ironic.
Empirical evidence has also accumulated in support of women's preferences for older men, and as you might expect, the data often overlap with those data supporting men's preferences. As this sample of Conroy-Beam and Buss's (2019) review suggests:
Cross-culturally, women report wanting partners who are (on average) 3.5 years older than them. In online dating, women make the first contact with older men at a greater than rate they do younger men. Marriage records show that women are marrying men who are older than they are by about 3 years.
h ttps://www. psychologytoday. com/us/blog/meet-catch-and-keep/201904/what-we-know-about-age-gaps-in-dating-love-and-marriage
What's your point? You're the only that gives a hoot about this.😆 I don't know why you keep bringing this up. You're not even on topic. Your comment was about guys having better luck when they're funny. What does this have to do with anything? 😆
there's actually proof i am right. if mens looks mattered so much then why dont you see them going for Brazilian butt lifts, have anorexia, bulimia, fad diets, splurge on makeup, skincare, fashion?
because reality is, womens looks matter 100% more than mens looks
Then there is also proof that i am a right that women aren't that flexible when it comes to men's wealth. And also if you want to talk about the skincare and fashion, i thought women said they do it for themselves.
America is filled with poor families. The average family in america lives paycheck to paycheck. so why you saying women aren't flexible when it comes to a man's wealth? if it was true, nobody would be getting married and having kids besides the rich.
@pupluv I already said you're just some 20 something girl I could care less who you're attracted to. Nor do I care what appeal I hold to you. What are you talking about. The question was who cares about looks more not age group. In your butthurt I don't think you even realize you're hijacking this question and making it some personal vendetta.😆
That's because america is a first world country and it is still possible for a man to get rich in their despite many of them are from a poor family and that is just like if i say there are plenty of ugly people in there because there are plenty of obese people in there.
And it doesn't even have to be from a first world country. Rich people can exist anywhere and those are what women typically choose. But if you like to deny that then i can easily say that a man can go for a girl who you think is ugly
Nope. If I get any calmer I'll be asleep. The proof is in the pudding. Anyone who's reading this thread has to be laughing at you. It's fine to call this argument he said, she said. But you keep trying to make it personal with "my age". I made a very good observation with my initial Chris Farley comment then you showed your insecurity with your "makeup" response. You seem to be angry at all men because you feel you have to wear makeup. I'm asking one point and defending it. You're all over the place.
VAST MAJORITY OF FAMILIES IN AMERICA ARE POOR , LIVING PAYCHECK TO PAYCHECK.
If women weren't marrying poor men, there would be no families living paycheck to paycheck.
Families couldn't survive during the 1 year of covid and the government needed to hand out free money in order for vast majority of families to survive. so how are you gonna insist that women only married rich men?
most women in america are married to poor average working class men who don't even have a year's worth of savings to live on.
most women in america are married to men who are unable to support their families off of 1 income. why do you think most mothers in america go to work? stay at home moms are a thing of the past.
Because I'm not attracted to vast majority of men your age. You don't look better at 47 compared to 30. Quite hilarious how immature you are. You're no different from a child.
Then i can also repeat that the vast majority of families in america are overweight which is objectively a bad thing and if men weren't marrying them then there would be no families. And also i would like to point out that majority of the marriage are divorce i always the woman will file for it and its mostly when they're going to find a richer man by comparison. Most of the time the only marry an average guy since they have no other choice but they're still expecting more money from them.
OK, my age has nothing to do with this question. The original question was not about men's age. See this is why I say you're all over the place. You're mad and just trying to find something that YOU think is insulting to me. But actually I'm just over here laughing at your presumption that your opinion matters to me. 😆
when men remarry after divorce, it is always a significantly younger woman. Most women do not tend to remarry after divorce. even when they do, it is not a significantly richer man
you have no problem talking about womens aging but when i talk about mens aging , you go bat shit crazy.
yea... immature old fool, you don't look better as you gain weight, lose hair, get wrinkly and saggy, bad knee, dick starts malfunctioning. Not attracted to that. I like my guys young, strong, muscular and fast with a full head of hair.
What are you talking about? Where are you getting this from talk about how I look all you want I could care less. I actually have no problem talking about aging in general. Because aging is inevitable. I find it funny when someone puts an expiration date on someone. But once again you're off topic. We weren't discussing age. You have a lot of anger. Maybe you should consider therapy.
"remarry" I bet you're still wondering why men's suicide rate is way higher than women's and even way more higher in their 30+ specially during divorce. If you like to deny that women don't go for the richer man, then a divorced man can't go with a younger woman since he has nothing to support for her.
truth is , women do not end up remarrying significantly richer men after divorce. but men always divorce their wives for significantly younger women. women are also more likely to stay single after divorce.
men suicide more because don't like to talk about their feelings. Men don't care about each other. Women are caring about each other which is why men go to women to talk about feelings. Take a look at caring professions: nursing, social work, therapy, day cares are all dominated by women. women are simply more compassionate
I think you have a lot of anger. You're angry at me because I stated my own dating preferences. You calling me angry is your way of projecting your anger. I have the right to state my dating preferences, just like you. Deal with it.
Then the truth is men don't end up remarrying significantly younger and more attractive women after a divorce but women always divorce their husbands for significantly richer men. Men are also more likely to stay single after divorce.
There are multiple factors why but I see you're only focusing on one factor. You don't know why men don't like to show their feelings. You don't even know that emotional men turn's women off. But here's the factor that's in this topic. www.youtube.com/watch
Also i did talk about specifically men in their 30+ or should I say 40+ which has way way higher suicide rate than men below that age group. If you say that's the only reason "because they don't like to show their feelings" then all age groups of men would've have the same suicide rate.
I could care less about YOUR dating preferences. Stop giving what you think so much gravity. I take exception to your initial claim, that is all. Anything foolish you said afterward is just incidental. I'll correct you when you wrong, it's just that simple.
men suicide more because men don't care for each other. Women suicide less because women care about each other. As you can see most caring professions are made up of women : nursing, social work, counseling, therapy. You can't blame women for the fact that men are the less caring gender.
I'm actually just waiting for you get fed up, block me, and hide in your safe space. Because it's quite obvious you have no interest in learning anything.
Then i can also say women on G@G want to date rich men and you don't see men on here saying they want young women.
Also you're only pointing out one of the factor while ignoring that women also gets turned off by emotional men just like how you also ignore the article i presented.
Then no man on here has ever said he wouldn't date a woman who is less than 30 years old. But there certainly are women on here who say that men expire if he doesn't make 200k.
Yeah I have been on GAG for a very long time so i know better and you don't have clue.
I think it's pretty equal. Physical attraction is generally the first thing to happen. Difference is we tend to have a more narrow spectrum for what we find attractive whereas men typically have a much broader one
Woman for sure Many man only care the woman is a woman beyond it its a bonus I think most woman care more about there looks and picking a man that fit it, that dose not mean that its a veto eatier way
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Both care equally about looks but lazy guys will tell you “women dont care about looks but status” so they dont have to improve their appearance and delude themselves into thinking that “game” and “status” will save them.
Its as basic as cutting ur nails and shaving ur neckbeard.
compare the average guy’s hands and the average girl’s hands and u will notice how fucking lazy guys are.
One gender cares about looks to look presentable for themselves. The other gender cares about looks to look presentable to others. What will others think of what i wear and how i look and if things are out of place.
both care about what they look like and what they're attracted to i think, there are exceptions but i think on the whole people care a lot about appearance
Women care way more about looks I mean seriously when a guy dates a girl and they go out to eat the girl looks at the man and says these famous words " your gonna wearvthat to dinner?"
I would say women but that’s because I do, but at the same time I would say neither guys will fuck anything and girls a lot of times like ugly guys. Still, i do feel like women have more standards then men.
I think guys care more about looks. A guy can be really ugly but if he is rich or has a really good personality he can still successfully find a girlfriend.
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I think women care more about looks than men do. Mostly when it comes to their own. Women, as you know, we use makeup, get our hair done, etc. I mean, I don’t use makeup often or do anything special with my hair because it’s a pain in the ass. If anything, I mostly just do light makeup and brush my hair to make it look decent. Hell, I’ll even straighten it. As for men, not really. Yeah they put effort into their looks but they don’t care as much.
an ugly man can still get women if he is funny. but an ugly woman will not be able to get a man if she is funny. women are more flexible with what they like.
there is a saying "women fall in love with their ears while men fall in love with their eyes"
Chris Farley one of the funniest guys ever couldn't get a girlfriend. YOU might be attracted to humor, maybe even more than the average woman. But to say "a ugly guy cab still get women if he's funny" is misleading at best and false at worst.
@ChiTown33
one man does not disprove billions of men.
Neither does one woman's opinion disprove a very good good example. Now you're just cherry picking data to support your brelief.
@ChiTown33
you're just one man denying this. Take a look at how many awesome likes my answer got.
@ChiTown33
i think you're the one cherry picking on here. like i said, 1 man does not disprove billions of men on earth.
And you're just one woman claiming this.
@ChiTown33
take a look at how many likes my answer got. so no, im not the only one supporting this.
Let's be real here. You're saying ugly man but you're not stating how ugly. In other words what you mean is he can be not drop dead gorgeous because his personality matters. But there's a limit! It doesn't matter how funny is if he's that grotesque. There I went ahead and said it for you so you don't have to feel shallow saying it 🙂. You're welcome.
Really you're going to brag about 1 like? 😆
@ChiTown33
i got star likes= amazing likes from people
@ChiTown33
if womens looks didn't matter, then why would it only be women wearing makeup, getting surgeries, overspend on fashion, wear heels that give them painful bunions, anxorexia / bullimia strictly only affect women?
you don't see men doing all of this.
because at the end of the day, mens looks do not matter nearly as much
how do you explain men only dating strictly younger women?
there are more young women dating significantly older men than vice versa.
personally i have seen plenty of beautiful girls dating ugly guys way more than attractive guys dating unattractive girls.
truth is, women are more flexible with what they like. If a man doesn't have looks, humor can make up for it.
OK, don't bring your own personally insecurities into this. First off we were talking humor and women's attraction to men. Now you're talking about something completely different. I'm sorry you're insecure. But what does that have to do with anything when it comes to being attracted to guy and whether humor plays a role.
@ChiTown33
these are all facts.
dont try to change the topic by talking about insecurities.
all of the above mentioned were all facts.
An ugly man can still get women if he has a great personality. does not matter if it is humor, or wittiness or spontaneity or charm
Wow that was a quick lashout. Apparently. I hit that nerve right in the sweetspot. Hun, just Tru not to blame all men for this insecurity. Let me tell you since you're really young. Not a guys will find you attractive. That doesn't mean you're not attractive. Love yourself. 🙂
Not all guys*
@ChiTown33
I'm not attracted to old men. I'm gonna indulge myself with hot young guys while I can still get them.
Good for you! That's the spirit. But I don't know why you think your value will decrease. A good woman will always be a good woman. I think you really need to work on your self worth.
@ChiTown33
I think mens value will decrease too as he ages. But its just that there will always be more women than men who put less emphasis on a looks. Personally, for me, a man's looks definitely does matter. But by the time I'm 45, I would lower my expectations. For right now, I will sleep and flirt with as many hot young guys as I can.
Wow, if that's the way you really think I feel bad for you. Because your connections will always be about ankle deep. But I think you're just angry and thinking this is somehow insulting me. I wish you luck. I think you're going to need it. I hope someday you get passed this anger.
@ChiTown33
I don't even know if I want to date when I hit my 40s. Because I wouldn't be attracted to men older than me. Very few guys in their 50s are attractive. Its non existent for guys in their 60s
@ChiTown33
I'm am not trying to anger you though. I'm just being honest about my preferences. Men have a prime too. Sorry if I sound offensive but it is true.
Well as long as you think this way I wouldn't recommend you dating at all at any age. Because all of them will end badly. But that's up to you.
@ChiTown33
Evolutionarily , people find youth to be most attractive. Because young people tend to have healthier offspring.
No I take no offense. Though your anger is quite obvious. It's true. I'm sorry but it's true.
@ChiTown33
It might explain why older people go on so many fewer dates than younger people. Its cuz young people don't want old people. Even old people don't want other old people.
@ChiTown33
I'm just being honest though. No anger involved.
@ChiTown33
If you go ahead and take a look at marriage data, vast majority of young women end up being married to men who are less than 10 years older than them.
Well since you're young I'll clue you in. When you're young dating is pretty simplistic. When you get to be age you actually have a beief structure you know what you like what you don't like and what you're willing to tolerate. As people age the have more baggage is all.
You're working pretty hard to try to convince me you're not angry.
@ChiTown33
Because the truth is, vast majority of young people aren't attracted to old people. Nobody likes your baggage either. You like to say that I'm saying this cuz im angry. But I think thats just your defense mechanism.
@ChiTown33
[You're working pretty hard to try to convince me you're not angry.]
if you don't believe me, then do some research on marriage data. who are young women marrying? young guys or old guys?
Well but that's the difference though. You care what I have to say. But I really could care less what you have to say. Because you're young and inexperienced and have nothing to teach me. I'm just trying to help you. Try to twist it if that makes you feel like you have some power.
I already said baggage all people this age have baggage. Apparently you didn't get that.
Why would I research marriage data? I'm not getting married. And I'm not obsessed with it. Are you?
@ChiTown33
Its definitely possible to be young and experienced or wise beyond your years. Its just that old people tend to be the most ignorant since they assume they've reached a certain age, then they assume they must know everything and be correct about everything.
Maybe that's your problem... you need to relax a bit.
@ChiTown33
I think you need to quit being in denial and accept reality a bit.
No, we've just been your age. We've made many of your ages mistakes already (hopefully learned from them).
@ChiTown33
the older you are, the more ignorant you get.
there is nobody on earth who knows everything... accept that.
Who said I know everything. Lol
@ChiTown33
cuz you're saying you've been my age so you know everything and that you're correct about everything.
im telling you... from years of my own experience: nobody knows everything... nobody is ever correct about everything.
No I'm just correcting you on the things you're wring about. It's not my fault you just happen to be wrong about a lot. 😆🙂
@ChiTown33
there's nothing wrong that I've said. Its just that you're offended by everything I've said so you try to argue with me.
Who'soffended? You made a point I refuted it, it made you mad and then you've spent about 40 post trying to put me in my place. You keep changing the subject expanding trying to make some point but you just dig a deeper hole. 😆
You want me to fight with you for some reason. But I'm not going to fight with some girl half my age. That'd be silly
@ChiTown33
stating facts does not mean I'm putting you in your place.
you're just arguing cuz you can't accept facts.
quite immature of you how you're trying to argue with facts.
@ChiTown33
Saying that I'm not attracted to old guys (doesn't mean I'm angry). Might just mean you're angry.
No hun we concluded you were angry long before you stated that you weren't attracted to old guys. Who you're attracted to has little to do with your anger issues. Your self worth does.
Flexible you say? Yet you failed to point out that a broke girl can get a guy if she's just fertile but a broke fertile guy can't. And you think theyre more flexible which is ironic.
@ChiTown33
Stating factual data doesn't mean I'm angry hunny, ok?
@Aiko_E_Lara
money / personality can substitute a man's lack of looks. Not for all women, but women tend to be more able to do so than men to be flexible.
Then i can also say that looks are subjective and her health and personality can substitute her looks.
@Aiko_E_Lara
No. Men can't overlook an ugly no matter how funny or healthy she is.
Then i can easily say women can't overlook a broke guy no matter how good looking he is.
@Aiko_E_Lara
you can say it. but it doesn't mean its true.
I'm still waiting for some factual data from. You. All you're spitting is venom.
@ChiTown33
Empirical evidence has also accumulated in support of women's preferences for older men, and as you might expect, the data often overlap with those data supporting men's preferences. As this sample of Conroy-Beam and Buss's (2019) review suggests:
Cross-culturally, women report wanting partners who are (on average) 3.5 years older than them.
In online dating, women make the first contact with older men at a greater than rate they do younger men.
Marriage records show that women are marrying men who are older than they are by about 3 years.
h ttps://www. psychologytoday. com/us/blog/meet-catch-and-keep/201904/what-we-know-about-age-gaps-in-dating-love-and-marriage
@ChiTown33
h ttps://www. pewresearch. org/fact-tank/2020/01/03/globally-women-are-younger-than-their-male-partners-more-likely-to-age-alone/
Then your statement doesn't also mean it's true but you can say it
What's your point? You're the only that gives a hoot about this.😆 I don't know why you keep bringing this up. You're not even on topic. Your comment was about guys having better luck when they're funny. What does this have to do with anything? 😆
@Aiko_E_Lara
there's actually proof i am right. if mens looks mattered so much then why dont you see them going for Brazilian butt lifts, have anorexia, bulimia, fad diets, splurge on makeup, skincare, fashion?
because reality is, womens looks matter 100% more than mens looks
@ChiTown33
because immature old men can't take the fact that they lose appeal as they age too. you get pissed off when i tell you im not attracted to you.
Then there is also proof that i am a right that women aren't that flexible when it comes to men's wealth. And also if you want to talk about the skincare and fashion, i thought women said they do it for themselves.
@Aiko_E_Lara
America is filled with poor families. The average family in america lives paycheck to paycheck. so why you saying women aren't flexible when it comes to a man's wealth? if it was true, nobody would be getting married and having kids besides the rich.
@pupluv I already said you're just some 20 something girl I could care less who you're attracted to. Nor do I care what appeal I hold to you. What are you talking about. The question was who cares about looks more not age group. In your butthurt I don't think you even realize you're hijacking this question and making it some personal vendetta.😆
@ChiTown33
your calling me angry was just your way of "projecting'' your own feelings of insecurities onto others.
there's nobody angrier than you on here
That's because america is a first world country and it is still possible for a man to get rich in their despite many of them are from a poor family and that is just like if i say there are plenty of ugly people in there because there are plenty of obese people in there.
And it doesn't even have to be from a first world country. Rich people can exist anywhere and those are what women typically choose. But if you like to deny that then i can easily say that a man can go for a girl who you think is ugly
Nope. If I get any calmer I'll be asleep. The proof is in the pudding. Anyone who's reading this thread has to be laughing at you. It's fine to call this argument he said, she said. But you keep trying to make it personal with "my age". I made a very good observation with my initial Chris Farley comment then you showed your insecurity with your "makeup" response. You seem to be angry at all men because you feel you have to wear makeup. I'm asking one point and defending it. You're all over the place.
@Aiko_E_Lara
I'm gonna repeat this to you again
VAST MAJORITY OF FAMILIES IN AMERICA ARE POOR , LIVING PAYCHECK TO PAYCHECK.
If women weren't marrying poor men, there would be no families living paycheck to paycheck.
Families couldn't survive during the 1 year of covid and the government needed to hand out free money in order for vast majority of families to survive. so how are you gonna insist that women only married rich men?
most women in america are married to poor average working class men who don't even have a year's worth of savings to live on.
most women in america are married to men who are unable to support their families off of 1 income. why do you think most mothers in america go to work? stay at home moms are a thing of the past.
@ChiTown33
Because I'm not attracted to vast majority of men your age. You don't look better at 47 compared to 30. Quite hilarious how immature you are. You're no different from a child.
Then i can also repeat that the vast majority of families in america are overweight which is objectively a bad thing and if men weren't marrying them then there would be no families. And also i would like to point out that majority of the marriage are divorce i always the woman will file for it and its mostly when they're going to find a richer man by comparison. Most of the time the only marry an average guy since they have no other choice but they're still expecting more money from them.
OK, my age has nothing to do with this question. The original question was not about men's age. See this is why I say you're all over the place. You're mad and just trying to find something that YOU think is insulting to me. But actually I'm just over here laughing at your presumption that your opinion matters to me. 😆
@ChiTown33
this topic was about age. if you're talking about woman's age, why can't i talk about a man's age?
@Aiko_E_Lara
when men remarry after divorce, it is always a significantly younger woman. Most women do not tend to remarry after divorce. even when they do, it is not a significantly richer man
@ChiTown33
you have no problem talking about womens aging but when i talk about mens aging , you go bat shit crazy.
yea... immature old fool, you don't look better as you gain weight, lose hair, get wrinkly and saggy, bad knee, dick starts malfunctioning. Not attracted to that. I like my guys young, strong, muscular and fast with a full head of hair.
What are you talking about? Where are you getting this from talk about how I look all you want I could care less.
I actually have no problem talking about aging in general. Because aging is inevitable. I find it funny when someone puts an expiration date on someone. But once again you're off topic. We weren't discussing age. You have a lot of anger. Maybe you should consider therapy.
"remarry" I bet you're still wondering why men's suicide rate is way higher than women's and even way more higher in their 30+ specially during divorce. If you like to deny that women don't go for the richer man, then a divorced man can't go with a younger woman since he has nothing to support for her.
@Aiko_E_Lara
truth is , women do not end up remarrying significantly richer men after divorce. but men always divorce their wives for significantly younger women. women are also more likely to stay single after divorce.
men suicide more because don't like to talk about their feelings. Men don't care about each other. Women are caring about each other which is why men go to women to talk about feelings. Take a look at caring professions: nursing, social work, therapy, day cares are all dominated by women. women are simply more compassionate
@ChiTown33
I think you have a lot of anger. You're angry at me because I stated my own dating preferences. You calling me angry is your way of projecting your anger. I have the right to state my dating preferences, just like you. Deal with it.
Then the truth is men don't end up remarrying significantly younger and more attractive women after a divorce but women always divorce their husbands for significantly richer men. Men are also more likely to stay single after divorce.
There are multiple factors why but I see you're only focusing on one factor. You don't know why men don't like to show their feelings. You don't even know that emotional men turn's women off. But here's the factor that's in this topic. www.youtube.com/watch
If you say no one would agree with me, the comment section there are anecdotes and it would've received more dislikes if that wasn't the case
Also i did talk about specifically men in their 30+ or should I say 40+ which has way way higher suicide rate than men below that age group. If you say that's the only reason "because they don't like to show their feelings" then all age groups of men would've have the same suicide rate.
I could care less about YOUR dating preferences. Stop giving what you think so much gravity. I take exception to your initial claim, that is all. Anything foolish you said afterward is just incidental. I'll correct you when you wrong, it's just that simple.
@Aiko_E_Lara
On GAG, men only want to date women in their 20s. You don't see women on here saying they only date rich men.
@Aiko_E_Lara
men suicide more because men don't care for each other. Women suicide less because women care about each other. As you can see most caring professions are made up of women : nursing, social work, counseling, therapy.
You can't blame women for the fact that men are the less caring gender.
@ChiTown33
you definitely care a lot about my dating preferences. your tone suddenly got hostile ever since I stated my own dating preferences.
quite funny how you love shaming other people for being angry but you have no problem being angry yourself.
"On G@G" key words, maybe don't believe EVERYTHING you read hun.
My tone? I've been laughing at you this entire time. My tone is nothing but jovial.
I'm actually just waiting for you get fed up, block me, and hide in your safe space. Because it's quite obvious you have no interest in learning anything.
Despite your nonsense I never quit trying to help you. 🙂
Then i can also say women on G@G want to date rich men and you don't see men on here saying they want young women.
Also you're only pointing out one of the factor while ignoring that women also gets turned off by emotional men just like how you also ignore the article i presented.
@Aiko_E_Lara
No woman on here has ever said she wouldn't date a man who made less than 200k.
But there certainly are men on here who say that women expire by 30.
You have been on GAG for a very long time and I know you already know about this.
quit pretending you don't have a single clue.
@ChiTown33
I think you're more fed up with me. I'm gonna stand by my dating preferences. I'm not gonna back down just because you got mad.
Then no man on here has ever said he wouldn't date a woman who is less than 30 years old.
But there certainly are women on here who say that men expire if he doesn't make 200k.
Yeah I have been on GAG for a very long time so i know better and you don't have clue.
I'm fed up with your incoherentness.😂😂😂 that's about it.
I think it's pretty equal. Physical attraction is generally the first thing to happen. Difference is we tend to have a more narrow spectrum for what we find attractive whereas men typically have a much broader one
Woman for sure
Many man only care the woman is a woman beyond it its a bonus
I think most woman care more about there looks and picking a man that fit it, that dose not mean that its a veto eatier way
Both care equally about looks but lazy guys will tell you “women dont care about looks but status” so they dont have to improve their appearance and delude themselves into thinking that “game” and “status” will save them.
Its as basic as cutting ur nails and shaving ur neckbeard.
compare the average guy’s hands and the average girl’s hands and u will notice how fucking lazy guys are.
One gender cares about looks to look presentable for themselves. The other gender cares about looks to look presentable to others. What will others think of what i wear and how i look and if things are out of place.
Of course they do. Yes but how much they care is totally subjective to the person. Some people care more and some people care less and some equally.
one gender definitely spends a lot more on their own appearance, that is for sure sure...
but men do care much more about the looks of their partners, that's also for sure sure
Women care more about looks.
But both genders are highly shallow.
both care about what they look like and what they're attracted to i think, there are exceptions but i think on the whole people care a lot about appearance
Women care way more about looks I mean seriously when a guy dates a girl and they go out to eat the girl looks at the man and says these famous words " your gonna wearvthat to dinner?"
I would say women but that’s because I do, but at the same time I would say neither guys will fuck anything and girls a lot of times like ugly guys. Still, i do feel like women have more standards then men.
I think I care a lot about looks at first impressions but if you really like someone. You tend to be more lenient with how they look lol
I think guys and girls might care equally about looks overall, but, the looks they both care more about are girls looks in my opinion!
I think guys care more about looks. A guy can be really ugly but if he is rich or has a really good personality he can still successfully find a girlfriend.
Women for sure... there are lots of guys who obviously don't care what they look like !!!
It's used to be men, but I wouldn't say it's true anylonger.
I think it depends on the person, some people are more superficial than others! But at the end of the day physical attraction is key.
Men are strong, women are pretty trope or female hypergamy, which factor is stronger.
Objectively both care about looks... It would be very rare if someone says they dont care about looks at all for a romantic partner.