How do you decide which people are worth fighting for?

[queenish_1]

I usually leave people when they start affecting mental health which is after i give them a few chances (maybe more than a few). Recently I feel the urge to leave if I get the slightest bit of discomfort or they affect my peace a tiny bit but if I do that won't I eventually have no one? Sometimes you fight for people and it breaks you in return because you thought they were worth it and I don't want to make that mistake again.

[SnowedIn]

It's a question of how much of you they consume. If you are always giving and never receiving that's bad. If they have no other support, that's bad. It is not your job to nurture others at this stage in your life. If they tell you that, that's manipulation and it's wrong and untrue.

You should have emotion left for you. And strength and energy left for you. And free time and other people and hobbies. If you have that, then it's worth it.

[SnowedIn]

Thanks for mho

[AviatorTom]

Very good question, and I'm sure various people will have different answers. Here is mine.

I believe that everyone is worth fighting for. The key question is which person or cause should I fight harder for, and that depends on each individual circumstance and situation. In other words, there is no hard and fast answer... every situation must be evaluated and a unique decision made.

[Summeroflove]

Well nobody is perfect. But for major and repetitive stuff. For sure

[Blackmoonsns]

If they put no effort in, and treat me like an option I'm gone.

[aaron210419]

You fight for those that are willing to fight for you

[Anonymous]

Seems like that's all i been doing these past several months is fighting for the woman i love of 5 years and it's getting me nowhere

[queenish_1]

Why didn't you give up yet? Like what in her makes you keep pursuing her? Did she show you some signs that she's interested too?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah