+1 yI find it hot when a chick has a real hobby or interest. I don't consider shopping and dressing up as one of those. I know there's plenty of chicks that will attack me for saying that with "Shopping and dressing up is a real hobby!" Um, no, fuck you if you want to tell me that. Like you play an instrument, edit videos, or anything? "Foodie" is another one that just annoys me... like you serious? Eating fucking food is a hobby or interest? GTFO with that hoarse shit. 😂 Like stop eating and learn to cook! lolz
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@Smc08 Right? I like to play video games and might binge on a game once in a great while... but I'm not going to claim it's some great learned skill... especially if I'm not monetizing the activity in some way. Now the weight lifting on the other hand maybe... people say oh dayum and will mention the results of it. I guess I break it down to one having real-world results and something people actually notice and the other basically achieves not much... Some non-game player isn't going to give a shit that I played God of War for 3 hours straight. It's like binge-watching Netflix and then trying to claim its a great learned talent that's taken time to perfect. 😂
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+1 yI find most talents attractive (within reason) many men find things like cooking skills attractive which yeah I get because everyone loves good food.
I suppose I find women good at sports attractive. It’s really hard to say what’s my favorite30 Reply
+1 ythe casual confidence from being really good at something that would fluster or embarrass other guys. Being able to dance, sing or give a speech. Being really handy and able to to fix or make stuff. I don’t mean the guy that puts on an over the top karaoke show and is a total ham. But the guy that just walks up and sings a song amazingly well. Something about the easy, unforced talent that makes it super sexy.
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being good at sports, being very fit, being good at singing/rapping, guitar, piano, being able to dress really well, being able to dance (not like ballet lol but more like hiphop, urban, kpop, etc), knowing how to use a gun well, having a high alcohol tolerance, talented with survivalism type stuff, knowing how to cook really well
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+1 yA man who is is a good dancer and can keep up with me, is very sexy.
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+1 yI like a woman who can fix things... very sexy.
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+1 yI like guys who can play instruments or football
10 Reply Genuine kindness and empathy, from a woman. And yes, I do consider that to be a skill/talent.
Besides that though, maybe someone who is musically gifted. Something about a woman who can really play the piano is sexy as hell to me!
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+1 yA woman who can sing has always been sexy and attractive to me. One who is also a nerd and can have fun debates and discussions about franchises, characters, etc. A woman who isn't afraid to get their hands dirty (I have dated welders and women that like to fix and do shit around the house and hunt and fish. That is a big one.)
I guess one guilty pleasure is a woman who can pole dance.
30 Reply Women who are executives and/or leaders are sexy. So, leaders.
Athletes. But, specifically runners and swimmers.
Writing.
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Same as you. Leaders are really attractive.
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@The_Shadow_Dweller... thank you!
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Welcome thanks for answering!
+1 yMy boyfriend is a gardener and I tell you when he's digging up dirt in the summer dripping with sweat and getting all breathy...👀
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+1 yGuys who play baseball, shoot pool, or skateboard. And Guys who are mechanics or construction workers
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Guys that can fix anything around the house are heaven sent lol.
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Mmm I don't know. They be acting like know it alls sometimes and it makes me mad haha
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Haha that’s true too
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Hey I'm not a know it all. I'm a jack of all trades but a master of one. Lol
319 opinions shared on Relationships topic. A talent? Hmm something he’s admiringly good at? 🤔
Maybe an exceptional driver? Lol
Intellectually talented?
I don’t really get attracted by what they’re capable of.
trick shots probably in all honesty 😍😂
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+1 yI agree with MCheetah about kindness.
Skills involving intelligence and creativity of all sorts are attractive.
As far as sexy skills, I’d say flexibility is a very sexy trait so maybe dancing. Singing could be another sexy one with the right voice.
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+1 yJust be a honest to goodness sweetheart and I will like you regardless lol. I don't think I find anything specifically attractive, it is already attractive enough when a guy is genuinely passionate about whatever he's Into.
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+1 yA cowgirl, I mean a real life one. Not one that dresses up like one.
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Are you from USA?
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I am from the USA
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I don't necessarily mean wearing a cowgirl hat, tomboy comes to mind. Baseball cap, t-shirt jeans boots. Not afraid to get dirty. Tending the livestock
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Oh I misread your comment. I thought you wanted a girl that dressed like one and I was gonna say go to Texas or Nashville lol
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Lol, you are absolutely correct. I've been to both places. Go to any country music artist concert and you'll see 30,000 of them lol
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The ones I'm talking about actually having dirt or cash it on their boots lol not purchased brand new the night before
390 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Musical instruments is BIG one girls or guys alike.
Dancing such as salsa, breakdancing or shuffle
Working on a car, as a guy seeing a gal who is knowledgeable and working on stuff is pretty darned HOT.
30 ReplyHonestly anything that takes effort. Effort, discipline, and motivation are super attractive even if the talent is something “nerdy” like chess or video games.
20 Reply2.6K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Anything that takes a lot of effort to master and is easy for us commoners to recognize.
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+1 yA guy with a great singing voice will always get me weak in the knees. Bonus if he's playing an acoustic guitar at the same time.
20 Reply I like a girl I can spar with, and one who can play the drums.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/U8LtNs1Tcqs30 Reply990 opinions shared on Relationships topic. I can play Twinkle Twinkle Little Star and Happy Birthday on a keyboard.
I find it appealing if a girl is good at board games and uses logical thinking.
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Anonymous(18-24)+1 yI first met my boyfriend when my sister sneaked him into our bedroom one night. I was awoken by my sister's moaning as her now my boyfriend was doing her from behind. She came four times with him and I found that attractive in a man as I'd been with a few guys who never made me cum once.
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+1 yI always thought a girl that gives 100% effort in everything she does is attractive. It’s not the traditional talent. However, I haven’t met a woman or have been with a female friend that has given 100% in much of anything they do. I’ve seen it in maybe 2 women in my life where I was passing through states/countries. But really no “American” women have ever had that kind of effort.
00 Reply Men and women who are really good at playing pool and can break and run to keep me on my toes.
10 Reply4.6K opinions shared on Relationships topic. A girl that can sing that has an amazing voice like Haley Williams from Paramore , Her voice turns me on so fucking sexy
10 ReplyI play 😋 and women love it
I like a girl that can dance or sing
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I bet they do! Lol
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+1 yLol. I play piano, violin and guitar... any guys out there, take hint. Playing music is very attractive to women.
10 Reply There are some things that I can do but I shouldn’t say it here 💃
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+1 yPlaying some musical instrument, dancing, drawing, anything artsy really 😅
20 ReplyNot having a MASSIVE ego, from having it inflated by incessant social media addiction... then stomping around the globe as if her ass is implanted with diamonds. Why? Because it's virtually unheard of nowadays. At least in the USA.
10 ReplySinging. My girlfriend tried to hide it from me until one time a car passed with a song playing. And after it drove by she finished the verse. My love for her just increased ten fold out of no where
10 Reply1.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Anything related to the arts, singing, dancing, acting, painting, playing a musical instrument, etc.
10 ReplyYeah I found a women who can sing or play an instrument very attractive.
Not sure why but women who play the violin and have expressive faces charms me quite well haha.10 ReplyMusicians!!! Singers, pianists guitarists mostly. But any skilled musician… also dancers too!!
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+1 ya foreign language is sexy, an instrument is too... maybe a sport as well
10 Reply *pulls out electric keyboard and starts playing 😏😂
I am attracted to girls that can sing or girls that are good with art like painting 😍
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+1 yMy top 3 are playing the guitar, cooking, and a REALLY good listener ;)
20 Reply732 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Dancing. If she can dance well I'm melting right there.
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+1 yA very flexible woman, women who are talented/who are passionate in the kitchen etc.
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Thanks for the upvote 😁
+1 yI like those people who speak less and has a lot of knowledge.
10 ReplyI think the skills I find most attractive in a guy: playing sports (especially martial arts), musical instruments; dancing and being able fix/build things.
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+1 ybeing able to suck a golf ball through a garden hose
10 ReplyI think what attracted me was a girl being both beautiful and a gamer 🤗
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+1 yi think it’s cute when girls are good at a sport they like or they like to skateboard or surf or something.
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yThere are many.. but a girl who can dance is very sexy.
10 Replywhen a man can cook 🥳
30 Reply10.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I have always admired guitar players.
20 Reply597 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Drawing, cooking, having rhythm.
20 Reply7.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic. A girl that can bait her own hook.
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u +1 ydancers... yep
10 Reply 1.5K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Writing, drawing, singing.
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+1 yStripping. You might not think it's a talent but, it def. is, and by god is it sexy af
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+1 yMale pole dancers and ballet dancers.
21 Reply Doing stuff the right way
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+1 yPiano playing, cooking or artistic qualities
20 Reply Guys that actually like cardio
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+1 yA pole dancer and an artist,
10 Reply A woman that can sing
10 ReplyBeing good at mathematics.
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+1 yBallet and “rhythm” gymnastics.
00 Reply 523 opinions shared on Relationships topic. A Girl who can sing Beautifully.
10 ReplyDeep throating is a talent we can all appreciate.
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+1 yA woman playing the
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