Am I wrong for telling him I want to pay for mines but I don’t have it right now so I prefer to stay back and you go get one?

[bbhhgirl]

So I am in nursing school so my working is off so I don’t have much money. I have been trying to get things together. In the mean time my boyfriend has paid for a lot the whole time we have been together. Just about two months ago I started doing a lot and more for him now. Every time he gets upset with me though he has thrown in my face multiple times about what he do for me. Today was the last straw. He asked me if I wanted to go to a massage place but I’m not trying to spend money on things right now that aren’t important.

[Sparkie460]

You're being very smart with your money. There will be plenty of time to do the things you want. Now you should concentrate on the things you need.

[bbhhgirl]

I am , so I should tell him I don’t want him paying for anything for me for a while right

[Sparkie460]

Yes you should. It should be sending him a good signal that you're not with him just for his money

[Summeroflove]

He sounds really nice

[bbhhgirl]

He’s nice for throwing what he does for me in my face every time he is mad? And then is asking me to go get a massage he will pay for to throw in my face again?

[Summeroflove]

You’re angry because he pays for stuff for you?

[Summeroflove]

Sure it’s not good when people get angry. Seems you’re ungrateful though

[bbhhgirl]

No he gets angry and throws in my face how he does everything for me

[Summeroflove]

Well. That isn’t good. Why is he angry with you?

[Summeroflove]

He’s doing a lot more for you then he has to. This is for sure

[bbhhgirl]

You’re right he definitely is so I rather reject for a while and let him know he has done a lot and I prefer to do by myself and if I have the money to spend I will

[Summeroflove]

Okay. Well do what you want but don’t be ungrateful