Is your SO your Soulmate?

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Do you think your current girlfriend or boyfriend is also your soulmate?

What do you think its needed to say someone is your soulmate?

[caring__1]

When people talk about soulmates, they're generally implying the relationship is fated, and it will continue no matter what either of them do. Lack of active involvement will destroy any relationship. Actually, a relationship is what two people choose to create and nurture together. If people want to be together, and they are compatible, they have the opportunity to create something special. Compatibility has nothing to do with how much people have in common. It has to do with how secure they are with themselves, allowing them to not feel threatened by differences. Differences allow us to grow, but differences in key areas can be seen as incompatibility. Be similar in key areas but flexible in all other areas. Make sure you're not assuming superficial aspects are key areas. Key areas are those that promote the essence of who you are and help you grow in the direction you wish to grow. If depth is important to you, then above average quantity of sex and money will never be key areas.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

We are veey different and even opposite in many things
But then we are exactly the same in other things

[Summeroflove]

It’s a hard question. Many times when you know you know. But this is also different for everyone

[CrazyGirl2]

Well I’m single right now, but I kinda thought my ex was my soulmate… all he had to do was not go to college in California and we would probably be engaged by now!

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

How you know he was the one

[CrazyGirl2]

I don’t know, how does anyone know anything? He was the guy I wanted to marry. We talked about it, he even told me what he wanted our kids to be named. But we are thousands of miles apart, so I broke up with him because I won’t do long distance relationships.

[jorfan3]

He's my twin flame. I received 7 signs from God he is the right person. It was insane and miraculous. I know I'm supposed to be with him.

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

Name the 7 of them

[jorfan3]

1) I asked God who I was going to marry and he told me his first and last name.
2) He said he would remind me of Him (because I had a crush on Jesus)
3) I wouldn't like him at first
4) I saw him in a dream
5) He's an INTJ, and I'm an ENFP
6) He matched all 102 things on my list of a perfect man
7) I came up with a secret "pass phrase" in my mind to indicate that this person was the one. I didn't tell anyone for years and waited to hear it. He is the only person to have ever said it.