I can’t leave because I won’t find anyone else?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend of 6 years messages other girls all the time. I stupidly gave him a second chance a few years ago but recently he’s been doing it again (probably never stopped, I know). It’s hard because I really love him.

I’m very conflicted. I want to leave because I don’t want to spend the rest of my life not trusting him and even though he’s never physically cheated, I see the messaging of other women as just as bad which makes me hate him for hurting me. However, if I leave, I know I’ll be alone for the rest of my life. Looks wise I’d say I’m a 6/10 but my personality is so dull and I fart in my sleep. No guy is ever going to want to be with me for long.

So my question is what is worse? Being alone or being happy 60% of the time with someone I don’t trust?

[Summeroflove]

If you’re not happy leave and you’ll find better. Being alone is better then being with someone whose making you miserbwkek.


This also depends on what he’s messaging about. If it’s sexual and/or romantic. He is allowed to talk to other people you know

[Daniela1982]

How do you know you will never find another guy when you are tied down to a loser and don't get out to meet any guys? He seems to be taking you for granted. Maybe you two need a heart-to-heart. Tell him to start treating you like he actually loved you or it's the end. But, you have to be able to actually make good on your threat. A lot of women will put up with it as they are not willing to do that. Maybe if you do the same as him, and let him know it, he might wake up.

[Anonymous]

He's already emotionally unfaithful. It's only a matter of time before he's physically unfaithful. Leave him before it goes that far. You don't want to feel that level of hurt.

You will not be alone for the rest of your life. I'm sure there's an equally dull sleep farter out there for you.

[HighValue]

Only good guys are difficult to find. Low quality disloyal like him are easy to replace. He is emotionally cheating.

[dustybiker]

Ever thought that time alone with yourself might be just what you need right now? You can’t bring the baggage of past relationships into knew ones. That’s exactly what you do when there is no gap in between to heal and reflect.

[SphynxUK]

Yes, stay with him because you will never meet anyone else. Spend your days reading his messages to other girls so you can get worked up about it…..🙄

[UniquelyBasic]

Seems you're done for if you fart in your sleep.

[dean53AU]

Yes you will, that piece of shit has verbally abused and put you down repeatedly to the point where you feel the way you do...
Leave the prick, no notice, grab all ya can and never go back. X

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

I’d rather be alone but the thing about me is that I’m really comfortable by myself. The girls in my area are drama and I have a hard time relating.

[Anonymous]

I assume he was the one who asked you out and hit on you

[slatyb]

You can definitely find someone else.

[Führerusa]

kid, why are you kidding

[jimmy2]

Let him go