My boyfriend lied to me about spending the New Year with his family and instead celebrating it with his friends cause I am too jealous?

[Anonymus2000]

My boyfriend lied to me about spending the Mew Year Eve with his family and instead he celebrated it with his friends at home because he hadn't seen them in a long time. He says he lied because i am to possesivly jealous about everything and I would have get angry if he told me the truth. He has right about the jealousy part and I can't help it. What should I do? Am I the one doing something wrong and making him too much pressure without freedom?

[Anonymous]

Why are you w him for if he lies to you? A guy shouldn't have to lie to his partner if he does then something isn't right w the relationship. Think long and hard if u want to continue it w him

[Opinion Owner]

Are you sure it was w his friends and not some random women or women he already knows or use to know? Guys generally wouldn't lie about seeing their friends to their girlfriend regardless if their girlfriend gets jealous. If he's hiding shit like that odds are he was heading out of town to meet some women or a particular woman he knows or use to know

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah he may of had a friend of his meet him at an airport to pick him up or something and travel around town for a day or so BUT odds are he was meeting up w another woman either from his past or some random woman he just met or planning to meet

[Anonymus2000]

I saw afterwards some photos of him with his friends... I usually get very jealous even over maybe little things and I don't know if maybe I am the problem in our relationship cause I generally have trust issues towards men.

[Opinion Owner]

Listen if he's screwing around with different broads on snapchat he's most likely meeting up with other women or a particular woman while he was out of town

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah he may if been with his friends BUT he was also with other women or woman

[Opinion Owner]

I can tell you right now it's not jealousy he's making you paranoid

[TheFlak38]

I can imagine what an insufferable control bitch you are.

[Figurine89]

If you're consistently jealous, it's not healthy