Is this a red flag🚩🚩?

[Anonymous]

Me and my man had a baby 3 months ago. Before she was here he started liking other girls pictures and sliding up on there stories. Fast forward to now and I've found screenshots of girls stories and half naked pictures in his phone. I need answers about what that means

[surebruh]

Very few people will acknowledge that while we love our spouse we can like MANY people. My question to you is how is he in other aspects of the relationship? is he present physically and mentally in you and your daughters lives or hardly around? is he attenuative when you talk or is he focusing on something else. As I've gotten older I find myself wanting other women more and more not just my wife which wasn't how I was before.

[Asker]

He is here physically but not really mentally. When I try to have conversations with him I always have to repeat myself because he's never listening. He doesn't seem to put much effort into the relationship ship part but he's a good father.

[surebruh]

It would be an uncomfortable conversation but have you said that to him, that he isn't present mentally? It's difficult to give accurate advice when not knowing him personally. Unlikely he will stop looking at other women he would just hide it better. Unfortunately the only thing you can do is talk to him about it that you "noticed" it while he was on his phone and why its happening.

[Asker]

That's the thing, I have voiced to him that I've seen it on his phone. And that it makes me uncomfortable. I've also told him that he's not present mentally and he doesn't say much about it

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Tell him you want to sit down and have a long talk because he's not playing fair to you.

[Pterodon]

It’s over