I freak out when the guy I’m dating dosent text me good morninf?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been seeing this guy for only 2 weeks. But whenever he’s busy or working he seems to not go on his phone he does apologise loads but when he’s busy he dosent reply quick or sometimes forgets to say good morning and it affects me? Am I over reacting here? Do guys take texting as seriously as girls? It just frustrates me

[SlavicThor]

I've been in your situation many times, for me it stems from abandonment issues in the past and fear of losing someone, and for me this will never go away totally. What helps is improving my self worth and self image the point where I know if someone leaves I'm totally okay no matter the outcome.

I would suggest letting him have his space, focus on yourself, keep yourself occuppied and consistently tell yourself everything is okay

[TheSpaceGnome]

Ignore the other people, you don't need meds, you just need to be with a guy long enough to know he loves you even when he is busy or sleeping or in a rush.

[Asker]

Yeahh it hasn’t been long you see it’s been literally 13 days so I guess I can’t really know for sure yet since it’s so soon

[TheSpaceGnome]

Being a nervous wreck about whether the other person genuinely cares about you that early on is normal.

[Luciferstar]

Nah we don't, Speaking for myself i think you could be over reacting a bit on this particular stance

[Guy13]

This is no healthy.

[Guy13]

Have you ever gone to a counselor for anxiety help?

[Asker]

No I haven’t but I do have bad anxiety when it comes to relationships

[Guy13]

If you can't control it a little go to a counselor. He can feel it and it can frighten people away. I know a few on anxiety pills.. See a doctor asap j

[Anonymous]

You're just a bit too needy. I'm same like you and here my girlfriend is the one who text less.

We need to change

[boggboss]

Yes you are overreacting crazy

[Anonymous]

Do you have OCD issues?

[Asker]

Yeah

[Asker]

I used to be on medication for it but it gave me nightmares so I stopped

[Opinion Owner]

Consider trying a different med.

[PatriceONeal]

You're toxic