Do you think this describes a perfect relationship?

[Twalli]

You never have any fights. You may disagree, but you never get angry or upset at the other person. Everyone says that fights are healthy in a relationship, but what if you never need to fight because it just works that way? Wouldn't that be a better relationship? I get that bottling up your emotions is not good, and then fights may be good, but if you don't need to and still don't fight, that should be better.

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Before you say that it's a nice dream, but impossible it isn't. My parents are like that. Honestly, that was my baseline for a good relationship, because I didn't know what other good ones were typically like. I was surprised when I heard that fights were supposedly good in relationships, never having seen one from my parents. Fights=arguments.

[midnightmoon05]

It was like that with my ex husband. We never fight so we never knew how to work out conflicts. Till the end. That was the end.
my husband…we fought so badly that no one would believe we would ended up married.
last night, I asked…things have been so quiet…what should we fight about. I think we sorted out our differences before we got married.

ex husband…we couldn’t work things out or knew how to fight. So ended.

I like haven’t some differences but not fighting at all. Stress kills everything.

[Twalli]

They do work things out, just don't fight.

[midnightmoon05]

our situation? not really, not at that point of our life time, we were too young to know how to deal with... so it broke apart. now we talk almost daily about our kids, our health, our parents, jobs... etc.
my now husband, we fought lots in the beginning. Now have nothing to fight about.
Thanks for MHO

[DizzyDesii]

I guess drama free is better but we gotta come up with new ways of entertainment since no arguments 🤣 maybe the sex will fulfill that spot 😂

[NathanDavis]

a better one, yes...

a perfect one, no

the relationship with my ex went that way, as you said (although a short one of about three years) we never had any fight at all... nor we got into major arguments either, we just didn't really have that many points of tension or friction like that

[SnowedIn]

I think it's awesome and, yes, they very much can exist. I personally wouldn't use the word perfect but that's just me, not that I disagree with what you wrote. Besides coffee and tiramisu, there's nothing that I think is perfect. But, yeah, relationships like this do happen and work.

[Guy13]

Good luck in that pursuit. I have never heard of such until I ran into you.

[RobT312]

That would be nice, but never experienced it or have never seen it. I think every couple disagrees about something at some point, and a fight is just a way of resolving things quickly. So do you fight in relationships?

[Twalli]

You'll disagree, it doesn't mean you have to fight though.

[RobT312]

That’s true. I always find that there are times a fight is unavoidable

[Twalli]

Have you ever tried to stay calm when you disagree. State your case without getting emotional. Also, hear what they say, didn't listen just to respond

[RobT312]

Haha yes I do. I’d say that works 90% of the time for me anyways. I agree id rather not fight, sometimes it just happens

[madgoat]

I don't think any couple is so compatible that they never have significant differences.

[alcorriher]

im single, but there's no such thing as a perfect marriage. even if u don’t fight

[Twalli]

What would you say is imperfect about a marriage where there are no arguments?

[Ryfyle]

What if you stick around because you love the fights.

[Nikki1989]

Sounds good to me.