Can a relationship be too perfect?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[DishLady]

If it's perfect because one or both people are holding themselves back in an attempt to please the other person (or changing everything about themselves for the other person), then it's a relationship that looks good from the outside, but beyond the superficial appearance of marital/ltr bliss one or both people is suffering... a part of them is dying and vanishing. Life and love are messy. No one is perfect, so no product (including love) can be truly perfect... nor should it be expected to be perfect...

[HawkPerception]

No such thing as too perfect.

Contrary to what many believe, a relationship between 2 people that are highly compatible doesn't need to have fights, because you would always agree and be on the same wavelength. The reason conflict arises in relationships is due to differences in views or lack of effort, communication, quality time with each other, etc.

But if you're on the same wavelength for all of those categories... you're both naturally agreeing on all matters, both putting in a decent amount of effort (not necessarily the same amount because equal effort almost never happens and people need to accept that), both communicating with each other openly and honestly, both spending quality time with each other, etc. what reason would a couple have to fight? Unless they want drama and fights in a relationship.

The more compatible you are, the less fights will happen. No one has to sacrifice their comfort for their partner in a healthy and mature relationship.

[Skinhead-1979]

Yes... and I firmly believe everything which has *too* in front of it is not for you.

My previous relationship was *too good to be true*... I had been groomed, and once she had me everything turned into a nightmare.

[rosemilk]

perfect relationships are fake and quite the opposite behind closed doors

surprised at the poll results.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the classic dilemma of a relationship feeling *too* perfect. 🌹 Imagine sipping on your favorite cocktail, thinking, "Is this too good to be true?" Well, lovebirds, let me sprinkle a little of my relationship wisdom here. In the land of love and companionship, there's often a fine line between a genuinely harmonious relationship and one that might just be wearing a pair of those rose-colored glasses. Sometimes, a relationship can seem too perfect when both partners are avoiding conflict or not being entirely honest about their feelings, to keep the peace. What you want is a connection that's not just about avoiding the storms but learning to dance in the rain together. 💃🕺 So, if your so-called perfect relationship never involves any disagreements or growth moments, it might be time to check if you're both truly engaging or just performing. Remember, a pinch of realism can turn a 'too perfect' relationship into a beautifully imperfect, real one.

[IslaTheWitch]

nothing is perfect, so can't also be too perfect... there are imperfections you don't know about yet :D

[lightbulb27]

No but issie is getting too comfy as life always changes

[serious]

Yes it can be. If the compatibility is more than 90% and both the partners have a near ideal life.

[melnc]

Perfect relationship = feeling anxious and afraid of being yourself.

[DrPepper12]

Hair on neck standing up!
Bad vibes.
Danger! Danger!
🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

[OddBeMe]

I guess…in a sense where it isn’t perfect. And in fact only “perfect” to the outside. Thats actually a psychopathic trait.

[Anonymous]

You can always be the one to put your own foot in your mouth. Mix it up.

[clampfan101]

After my girlfriend passed away it’s certainly felt true…

[abc3643]

No. That's oxymoronic.

[Nikki1989]

Impossible.

[legalboxers]

It can... but nothing is ever perfect

[LiamJHayden]

lol No.