Should I stay away from a previous married guy with two kids we started talking and he mentioned that his divorced ( or going through a divorce) ?

[Lidiya123]

Hardly has time to see me only over the weekend if his not seeing his kids. Should I just leave him alone

[Paul_in_Indy]

You should not think of this guy as a serious prospect. If you want to have a fling with him, have fun with him, enjoy yourself, etc. that is great. Think of this guy as a toy you can play with. I wouldn’t expect more than that.

[Lidiya123]

Why you say that

[Paul_in_Indy]

That is my reasoned insight as a man of a certain age. There is very little chance he is available as anything more than a fling. IT is best to consider the opportunity in those terms.

[Berethor]

I am not interested in single moms, but girls tend to be more okay with that kind of stuff.

[AydenHazor]

Him prioritizing his kids is a very good thing, but if he's truly interested in you, he should make time for you too. If he's not willing to do that now, he won't do it later either.

[Rangers]

Leave it alone, one failed marriage will only lead to another

[HaveNoName]

Let him get done with the divorce and show you proof that his divorce is finalozed.

[Furious_Revelation19]

You should probably avoid that sort of relationship, I imagine it comes with a lot of baggage.

[QuietRunner]

just stay away

the extra attention and drama for the ex-wife will be trouble

[boggboss]

What do u want