A year ago I liked a guy who was one year older than me, and we were friends. We had great chemistry, texted until morning, played video games together, had deep conversations and so on. I liked him, and he found out, he told me he liked me too. It was a problem though, I didn't want him to find out I liked him because I knew I couldn't be with him. I wanted to get married in the future, have children and I was and AM a religious Catholic. He was an atheist and didn't want to convert, didn't believe in marriage and didn't want to get married. He also did not want any kids in the future.
So when he found out I panicked, and he was so happy because he liked me too but I rejected him. I told him the reasons why and it really broke him, I saw it. He literally broke on the inside although he tried to hide it. He started pouring out how sad he got and that Is as the first girl that he liked and that liked him back, and he liked my personality so much. He was devastated and so was I, but he got angry at me because I rejected him. He also told me that I would regret rejecting him, and to be honest he was kind of right.
Our friendship was ruined. He was never the same again and never spoke to me again. I did try to text him a few times (like 12 times) but he only responded with one word or didn't respond at all. A completely different person.
The problem is I still have feelings for him, and I don't know what to do. I miss our friendship and his company. But he doesn't want anything to do with me. I haven't met a guy with such a personality like his.
I mean I can't get together with him still, unless he doesn't convert and change his views but I doubt he will. But I miss our friendship.
What should I do? He haunts my thoughts all the time.
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I understand how you feel.
But also, I think you were right. This does not seem like a relationship that could work in the long run.
The best cure is to find someone else, even though I know that is tough and takes a long time (far be it from me to say, but it's true).
I agree with you. I also thought at the time that it wouldn't work out and I tried to explain it to him but he wouldn't listen.
You're right, I should just move on and try to find someone that has the same religion as me.
Did you also go through the same thing since you said that you understand how I feel?
Your first mistake was being raised catholic.
Which of the 24 versions of Catholicism did your parents force onto you?
And when do you think your brain will mature enough to see that none of the 40,000 religions are real?
No, I am confident in my religion.
There are a lot for Catholic cults yes, but I don't believe the other "Catholics" are real Catholics because they don't believe the right things. Some for example still thinks that the current "pope" is a real pope. But I believe he's not because of the things he has said. Like for example he said that all religions believe in the same God which goes completely against the Catholic religion.
So yeah, I personally believe that the religion I am in is the right and only one, and whatever you say won't make me change my mind. So it's really pointless of you to come here, criticize me and tell me that my brain is immature because I'm religious.
You’ve just repeated what all cultists in denial say.
“The other catholics are fake but my version is correct.” 🤣
Ask a muslim, christian, satanist, buddhist, jew, obscure cultist or flying spaghetti monster member that same question and they’ll give you that same answer.
I know you’re brainwashed and will never see the big picture until something horrible happens to make you realize the hard way that we’re alone here.
I don't care what other says, I still believe mine is right and nothing you say will change my mind.
You're pathetic coming here to bash people for their religion.