I have a feeling if I get into a relationship that the guy will cheat on me I just fear relationships in general bc of that what do I do?

[laurlaur101]

[caring__1]

Entering a relationship with fears is likely to set up a self-fulfilling prophesy. You're so sure it will happen, you'll likely feed energy into making it happen. Both guys and girls cheat, but not all guys and girls cheat. Start off by being observant. Discover patterns you associate with stability in a relationship, rather than choosing someone you just find arousing or rich. In other words, never assume someone you choose will last long-term if you are only looking at short-term values. If you pay attention, you'll discover which signs predict which results. Be true to your overall objective rather than choose what feels good for the moment.

[Dav1dTh0ma389]

Stop thinking that because one guy hurt you, that we're all the same

That is our number one turn off. When a girl assumes we're all the same

[Paulalove98]

Don’t rush things, get to know someone well before getting serious.. I rushed my recent relationship and he turned out to be a serial cheater. Yup. All you can do is just hope for the best and find a person who makes you feel safe, secure, and comfortable with, if someone is gonna cheat, they’re gonna cheat. It’s not your fault, you just have to love who you are and it’s hard to trust people but if you’re open to love it’s just a risk you take.

[Tonyblony5150]

Maybe you should try an open relationship, you know you can't deprive yourself of love if you feel like you need love take it your way.

[Iron_Man]

Find church guys your odds will go up

[Anonymous]

Insecure cunt spotted 😊