I have this irritational fear my boyfriend will cheat or is cheating on me, any tips for people who go through the same?

[Cass510]

Hey y’all so I’ve been with my man for three years. There has been no infidelity from him or me THAT I KNOW OF and he’s pretty honest FROM WHAT I KNOW. Okay, he’s an upfront guy and he will go out with his friends from time to time stay out a little late but nothing crazy he works a lot and we hang out. But I’ve always had this insecurity and this doubt that he will be faithful to me. I always think he’s cheating or doing things behind my back. I’m always anxious to look through his phone and calculate things and I know this isn’t healthy but he tries to reassure me and he is a good guy but I don't know why I feel this way. Again I’ve always felt like this in all my relationships with him it’s less but still there this doubt. Help! Also don’t comment if your gonna be asshole I’m seeking help so don’t be an ass

[PeteBy]

It's not as irrational as you think. My partner still looks through my phone after 11 years. I never look through hers. In some ways it's a sign of how much you feel for someone and need reassurance that he loves you. That's the way I see it. When you love someone so much that you're scared of losing them. You may do things for your own self preservation. It sounds like you have a keeper. I personally think it's quite sweet my partner still checks. Don't over analyse it too much though. That isn't good for the relationship. Hope that helps.

[spartan55]

Yeah, you shouldn't be in a relationship until you fix your issue. Your boyfriend must have the patience of a saint.

[Danny_dan92]

If you have this fear you shouldn’t be in the relationship

[Anonymous]

i'm dealing with her cheating again the fucking asshole especially a week before i have to see the fucking jerk out of town on a business trip and for the asshole's birthday a week from now

[Anonymous]

Not sure but you be single until you figure it out.

[Opinion Owner]

Should be*