What is the official, textbook definition of cheating?

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Please provide the textbook definition.

petitedollbabee · Accepted Answer

There is no textbook definition, but to me cheating means doing something sexual with someone else while you’re in a relationship. Which includes, but is not limited to, sex, kissing, oral, sexting, exchanging nudes/special photos.

I don’t consider watching porn to be cheating because there’s no one engaging with you, you’re just watching or looking at something, there’s no one on the other side making the effort to send it to you.

Kiwedin · Accepted Answer

There is no textbook definition, because it's entirely subjective. This is why communication is so important and knowing your partner's boundaries are imperative to a healthy and happy relationship. Even among my own friend group, we have disagreements as to what constitutes cheating.

My rule is "if I wouldn't feel comfortable doing/saying this in front my SO, it's probably inappropriate" even if it's not technically cheating.

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

According to the officially recognized source of relationship definitions... urbandictionary. com...

cheating
Being unfaithful to your spouse or significant other in any shape or form whether sexually or verbally.

My boyfriend was cheating by texting other females and allowing them to believe they were in a relationship.

Dav1dTh0ma389 · Accepted Answer

Doing something sexual, without telling them first.

That's why "open relationships", are, they way they are, they're usually "open" about the fact they want to "be with them", but that want to be able to have sex with others

Jessica405 · Answer

Doing ANYTHING, with a 3rd party, that has sexual intent, without the permission of your SO.

loveslongnails · Answer

There IS no "textbook" definition because it's all defined by your partner's level of acceptance. What's totally fine with one person could be totally unacceptable to another. Is there a story here?

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Cheating: An act of deception, fraud, trickery, imposture, or imposition, for profit to yourself, in which you deprive another of fairness.

aaron210419 · Answer

Any interaction with someone that you feel you have to hide from your partner whether it's sexual or emotional

LiamJHayden · Answer

From the Book of Liam: Cheating is: Giving attention and/or affection to another that rightly only belongs to one's SO.

msc545 · Answer

It used to be having sex with a person other than your spouse. Now it's when a guy you dated twice looks at Instagram pics of women.

HaveNoName · Answer

"Concealing and bringing your textbook to a closed book exam in a school exam".

Anonymous · Answer

Dick in a hole that’s not my hole, lips on lips that’s not my lips. If his penis or mouth goes anywhere that’s not on my body

Anonymous · Answer

Having sex with someone other than the girl you are with.

Anonymous · Answer

Cheating is when you  Consider Humans Eat a thing in Natural Gestures

Timid-guy · Answer

If a woman cheats on me, she better pack her bags, I'm a dominant Alpha male aaaaarrrgh

Anonymous · Answer

Gaining sexual pleasure from anyone or anything that is not your SO, and that includes porn.

Kaneki05 · Answer

When you can't tell your partner.

Mamasanma · Answer

When you can't tell your partner

What is the official, textbook definition of cheating?

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