What do you define as cheating?

[JordynJayne]

[Rosexøxø]

I guess I could try to simplify it as this: (for me by the way, I’m not sure about the ‘one-size-fits-all’ thing).

Cheating is: emotionally valuing someone else *more than* your s/o; spending *more time* (quality time, as well), with one specific person more than your s/o; having sex with someone and/or anyone that is not your s/o. Anything sexual like flirting, fantasizing, scoping them out 👀👀👀👀- is a ‘no-go’ for me. 👐

So no:

• inappropriate valuing of another person
• inappropriate time spent with another person
• sexual activity with another person.

~ When you love someone, you’re more than just two friends who are supposed to love hanging out all the time and just basking in each other’s company, and dining together- you make love together, so to do any of those things with someone else and prioritize someone else more than your significant other, is just like the ultimate betrayal. You’re on a specific diet plan, and that would be considered “cheating.” ☹️👌

[AddylynnNightingale]

Caring about or wanting to be intimate with someone else more than the person you are in a relationship with.

[MementoMori777]

Anything that steps out of the friend zone, that includes flirting for me cause flirting is a form of interest that isn't friend related, but in reality I would choose a girl that also agrees in the no opposite gender friends thing.

[KennethNoisewater]

If you are too ashamed to do it in front of your partner, it's probably something you shouldn't be doing

[UniquelyBasic]

Breaking whatever contract, you and your partner decide on.

[Agape93]

Dating or fucking someone outside of your established relationship and relationship boundaries.

[USLegionary]

Making out or sexual contact with another guy. If you are sexting you've made the decision to cheat.

[MannMitAntworten]

If it crosses your mind that you might be cheating … you are cheating. Whatever it is you may be doing.

[Fireguy17]

if you wouldn't do it in front of your partner, tell them about it then it is cheating.

[BJP21]

I like what @Rosexøxø said "inappropriate valuing of another person." and doing it in secrete.

[OddBeMe]

Intent on being romantic with someone else.

[Guardian45]

Catching her in flagrante delicto