Girls, how do I change my girlfriends perception that I’m always whining?

[Anonymous]

She will ghost me, ignoring my text an phone calls. She says she was busy with kids and family and when I ask her she why she couldn’t find a minute to even tell me she is busy, she tells me to stop whining. She has , went all night and never even read my text. If I question her she tells me to get a grip. Am I being a control freak? Now if I bring up anything about or relationship she says stop whining. She is very affectionate and says she loves me. Am I overreacting?

[AmandaYVR]

Honestly, I skimmed this, which I usually don't, because the fact that she says to you that you are "whining" just shows that she's a bitch. I'd advise you get out of this relationship. It's really not worth the angst. Someone uses this word on a regular basis is either not someone who cares about you, or she's just not a kind person.

These are out there.

[kylee2437]

Yes you are being a control freak. She’s allowed to have time to herself and just because she has a functioning phone, doesn’t you have full access to her 24/7. Let her have her alone time and she will 100% appreciate it more when you make attempts to call without freaking out about the fact that she didn’t answer your text message all night long

[Venting101]

Yeah you are overreacting. You know she has kids and if you know anything about kids they can take up a lot of your time to the point you don't always have much time. Ask around and you find many couples have not been on a single date since they had kids because kids keep you busy. Back off, if the relationship is meant to be, it will be.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, you are a control freak and trying to be possessive. Give her some space.