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Am I thinking irrationally?

I was actually going to go out alone and enjoy myself today and yesterday

He doesn't necessarily let me go anywhere alone now.

He spent $2000 of cash to get his car fixed...(he has more money)

didn't touch his money from work in an account until it showed up in his account the night b4.

He doesn't necessarily buy him things.

He says my needs arnt important like paying bills if he has to pay for my half.

We went to a concert last night and he helped pay for some things because he wanted to tag along. I asked if he can help out with parking and food and he didn't put up a fight.

Eventhough he helped I feel ungrateful because I don't know how many times I gotta ask or say differently but I just want HIM to make the effort of a date, to come up with a time and or plan. Or just $6 flowers from a gas station.

It's so frustrating.

I accepted him helping me and felt okay but now I dont at all because someone said he's grooming me to be cheap and to make me okay with having nothing most of the time.

My love language is gift giving.

He does most things okay outside of not being a gift giver... But the end of the day he's not meeting my needs and may not be able to like ever.

I'm just mad I'm pregnant and giving birth in 1 month.. thinking hed change months ago only to see he wasn't because while he was working it was an issue for small shit and now that he's not working it still is.

I suggested us getting our own places and can co parent that way but I need to focus on myself and I need a lot of space too

Thoughts?

Am I thinking irrationally?
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