I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 weeks now. We both have kids, he has a 4 year old, and I have a 1 year old. We got on amazingly at the very start, but things are slowly creeping in that I don't like! For example, I get up 6 days a week to go to work at 5am for 2 hours, and when he stays he'll get up with my daughter. Anyway, he never feeds her and just sits in bed with her, then as soon as I walk through the door, he falls back to sleep. Not even offering for me to have a nap as I don't sleep well at all, and could do with a few hours as I have my daughter all day by myself. What annoys me the most is that he's going home midday and can nap whenever he wants.. I can't, yet he's still okay to fall back to sleep and let me deal with everything else. He knows I have a headache, sore throat, basically I'm really run down, yet seems like he doesn't give a crap. I cooked a roast dinner last night, and he didn't even offer to help one bit, and afterwards, didn't even offer to help clean up. I'm always doing him coffees, and making sure he has food. (I pay for everything as he never has money). Even spent £100 on him for his birthday a few days ago (I don't exactly have much money myself but I want to help him)!
I'm slowly starting to get miserable, it's like he doesn't give a crap. I told him this morning I'm knackered, I was up most of the night with my daughter, yet he's glady sleeping right now.
What shall I do? Shall I talk to him about how I feel? I'm starting to get sick of it already. Aren't boyfriends supposed to help? Just feel like I'm doing more in life, physically and financially.
