Am I thinking too much?

[Starwitch23]

I am dating a guy who is 2 years younger to me. He is nice and gentleman kind. I like him a bit and he says he likes me. I slept with him on our 2nd date. I think I have ruined everything. I don't think he won't ask me to be his girlfriend. He said that he wants long term girlfriend. We have been on 3 dates. And recently he got busy. We haven't been talking. I think I'm catching feelings and I feel it's going to end badly. He told me that he had short term relationships. His longest relationship was 5 months. And I got to from his ex's friend that the communication will fizzle out and he won't put much effort. And the coworker of this guy told me that he is a good guy and anyone will be lucky to have him. He does put efforts more than me. I had terrible past. I feel like ending because I don't want to hurt myself or used for sex. Am I thinking too much?

[SweetJoyGirl]

Omg!

First of all, I love your lipstick colour. It is such a gorgeous shade. 🥹

Second, I have nothing. I also overthink, so it would be the blind leading the blind. 🤪🤪🤪

Maybe try communicating with him. Tell him how you feel. 🤔

[Starwitch23]

Thank you so much. Yeah I am thinking to do so

[NathanDavis]

you're definitely overthinking way too much, yes...

best to just slow down... and actually communicate with him... don't rush this much

[Starwitch23]

What does slowing down mean?

[NathanDavis]

don't rush into too definitive decisions based on assumptions...

slow down your thinking... and communicate with him instead

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Don't be too quick to have sex and slow things down with him, Make time for long communication with him

[Starwitch23]

thank you i understand that

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@Starwitch23 You are welcome ;)

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks for MHO :)

[Amur8711]

Right now you may be over thinking.