How do I deal with a guy when he’s stressed?

[Anonymous]

This guy I’ve been seeing for a month is stressed and he’s taking it out on me or he will just ignore me and it’s so soon so I don’t wanna like make him feel trapped. Do I just give him space or keep asking if he’s okay? Like I don’t really know what to do. Usually in this situation I like treating my man and like buying him something or like I’ll send him a sexy picture but in this situation he’s really taking it out on me and ignoring me so I don’t think it’s the best idea? He’s just acting strange and posting stressful quotes and I’m trying to see him but he’s just all stressed and angry all the time Do I just leave him to come to me?

[GallopAcrossEurope]

Give him space. I feel in general everybody should go through this kind of depressive phase and it's really normal if it's not lasting for more than two weeks. It's in general a combination of a stressful event, bad diet (major flag), and likely bad past experiences in the past leading him to becoming more depressive. Just check in with him every once in a while, once he gets over it he'll be back in vigor and will appreciate your concern.

[Guy13]

This sounds like an unchanging personality trait which you will have to live with.

[HateyouxD]

Ew. Leave him be sis. Go continue to live your life. If he wants to join you he will💜

[Anonymous]

Tell him to knock it off or your done. He has no right to treat you that way.

[Anonymous]

he's hurting

[Opinion Owner]

try actually talking to him one on one

[Opinion Owner]

for me it's because of her being with another guy. her utter betrayal. the bozo she's with now she's known for 11 months not even a year and like every other guy she's cheated on me with she tells them she loves them. the absolute fucked up part NONE of them were there for her when she dealt with all her low points and there were A LOT of low points for her and I was there during them ALL. none of those jerkoffs including the one she's with now weren't around and sure as hell weren't there for her. and the fact that she's with this jackass and telling him she loves him and shit it hurts it really fucking hurts especially when she's never once said to me that she loves me in the 5 1/3 fucking years I known her for and helped her out so fucking much. her cheating and betrayal and her supporting that freeloading bum when I never once asked for a damn thing never once asked her for a fucking penny all that shit it hurts a lot and the fact that she doesn't even care or give a damn one fucking bit makes it worse

[Opinion Owner]

There were bums in her past who took off and aren't around anymore and this guy she's with this jackass who she supports financially it hurts watching like she's throwing it in my face or something like she rather be with everyone else under then sun then be with me that's how she comes across as like nothing i do is ever good enough for her

[Opinion Owner]

it's the utter betrayal and sheer backstabbing and disloyalty that hurts all her emotional and mental abuse

[Opinion Owner]

she's very abusive emotionally and mentally