What are the reasons why you would cheat and yet stay in the relationship?

[Anonymous]

Just wondering what the reasons are

[D_Bone_Steak]

From me and what I've done, she cheated first and it became my royal right to cheat back X10. Cheat on a guy like me and if you convince me to stay, you better pay the rent, buy me a car, and watch me fuck other women for years until I finally decided I'm cool with you just paying for everything... just buy me a PS5... and a 75" television.

Those were my reasons. But at this point I just want to kick back and do nothing but lift my weights and play video games... the VA disability money is enough from my end. She cheats again though, she's going to enter a world of shit again from me. I've developed a fetish for midget clowns and I'll show her a circus.

[Asker]

Omg oh wow. That's a lot. Sorry that happened to you

[D_Bone_Steak]

Thanks. What I don't understand to this day, is why cheat if she's just going to beg me to stay and even allow me to treat her like shit for years for it... my presupposition on a woman cheating is she's done and wants to leave. According to her she had no intention to leave. Of course, I was pissed off and put her through hell... but why she even start that process just to beg me to stay and put up with me literally trying to force her to beg me to leave?

[Asker]

Yeah it's weird. It's like she has a thing for all that.

I don't get why people cheat tho that's why I asked

[D_Bone_Steak]

Yeah, it's confusing... well, I gave you one reason... revenge cheating.

[mobiusforniner]

One answer- my daughter. I emotionally cheated, but would never leave my baby girl. she's my everything.

One night at the dinner table, after a major health ailment, i facetiously told my wife, son and daughter id do my best even if it kills me. My wife and son tell me "no, dont say that! We need you". My daughter, age 3, begins crying and says "no daddy, I want you"

I know who loves me... and I wouldn't give up no matter how terrible life can be.

[Anonymous]

I cheated on my boyfriend because I found a guy that can benefit me in terms of money. My boyfriend is really poor so he can't buy me what I want. Though I don't want to breakup with my boyfriend because he's the only one for me. He's so goood to me and no one's ever done that to me.

I only cheated through chat, they benefit me online. I didn't see those men in person. And I don't plan on cheating in person. It's been a year and 3 months now that I haven't cheated and I'll stay faithful.

[aaron210419]

Pure selfishness