Why would you cheat?

[Anonymous]

Guys, I’m interesting if you have or why you would?

A married man is trying to pursue me, we have built an emotional connection, nothing physical has happened but his wife is overthinking and she has every right too, he could easily stop this - but won’t?

How powerful is that connection?

[Summeroflove]

You can also easily stop this and should…. I would never cheat people who cheat have bad morals and integrity. Do you understand this? At all?

If you know he’s pursuing you immediately break it off bare minimum. You know better. What happens if his wife becomes jealous and kills you? What happens if things start getting out and he gets scared she will find out doesn’t want to loose his ass in a divorce so he kills you? What happens if you get a STD because he’s fucking many people. What happens if you become pregnant. What happens if a lot of things.

That’s just a selfish perspective. Look at his poor wife….. Even if she’s not good to him a good person wouldn’t be with another person whose married period that’s the end of discussion.

[Asker]

I appreciate that and you’re right, but when your attracted to someone and you build a foundation together upon feelings and emotions that makes it more difficult, yes he could stop or end his relationship but that won’t happen cos he has a lot to loose financially as selfish as that is and I could as well but I don’t have anything to loose and fyi I have tried to cut this off 3 times already.

[Summeroflove]

Asked if he’s bothering you after telling him to fuck off jrs harassment. You didn’t try if you’re still with him and I don’t care if doing the right thing is hard. Don’t be stupid

[Summeroflove]

You need to put on your big girl pants and end it.

[sawno]

I wouldn't cheat, but the men who do often do due to being trapped in an unfulfilling marriage or being unable to control themselves in a relationship.

Common one for example, you have children together or you must pay a ton of money in the divorce so separating isn't an option. But at the same time the chemistry in the bedroom is dead and maybe if she wants to have sex she will just see it as a chore. Then the guy has a strong motive to seek satisfaction elsewhere so he can fulfill his needs enough to stay in the marriage. The reverse happens to, I have seen women do it for the sake of their children.

Now if its not an older married guy but a young guy in a relationship he's probably either immature or lacks self control. Or he never valued the relationship to begin with. Good guys don't cheat in this stage, they'd leave.

[BarryLiverstone]

I wouldn’t cheat. But know if he’s talking to you then he’s also talking to other girls

[Anonymous]

First of all, I have never cheated and never will. I also have never, and will never do what you're doing with this married guy. It's disgusting.

[jahaims]

People cheat to cope with hating themselves

[scott04sa22]

I wouldn't cheat