What are the reasons why you would cheat while you are in a good healthy relationship?

[Anonymous]

Or why you have a good healthy relationship, yet log into a dating app and like other women om the app?


I just don't understand these type of men. Because I won't ever do that and I would be loyal. I don't want to hurt other's feelings so I won't ever do that. And I won't be a homewrecker.

So I just want to know why you would do it.

[Talldutchie]

So here my MAYBE controversial opinion:

Yes, it is wrong to cheat morally and ethically. However, there are tons of reasons why people cheat! Maybe a man hits a woman and the lady does not dare to leave him, but does find love outside the door. Or if people try to tell their partners for years in a row how much they are in need of more sex, also then people might cheat.

Whether that is still wrong, yes or no, I do believe that we are not made for one person necessarily. Yes, it is possible.. but we are creatures like animals are. Animals cheat and are basically all fucking around, so I believe it is human made that we should stay loyal to one partner.

Now if my partner totally drunk would kiss another woman who he does not know, who he never will meet again and comes home and still loves me, I will be fine with that. Also, I may rather just not know and keep enjoying him spoiling and being nice to me, because that is most important. I would never LOOK for ways to cheat, but if I did and felt bad... I would try to keep it to myself, learn the lesson and use it to turn it into something good for my relationship. While enjoying my man and I being happy together!

[Talldutchie]

Thanks for the MH :)

[Anonymous]

In some cases, it stems from unmet needs in a relationship. Issues like lack of communication, boredom, and personal insecurities can fester when they're not fully addressed. If one partner feels like they're never listened to or respected in their primary relationship, they may look for that in another person.

[Asker]

I get that yeah but isn't it easier to just break up than to cheat? 😲

[Asker2022]

I never get attention from girls so If I get attention I would take it with no hesitation but that doesn’t mean that I don’t like my girlfriend.

[Asker]

Okay but you can hurt her with giving attention to the other 😶 I just don't understand that tho

[Asker2022]

I don’t think she would get jealous, she knows that I’m not a charm.

[exitseven]

There are no reasons beyond being dishonest and unworthy.

[Midgetmcwidget]

I wouldn’t once a cheat always a tramp

[MrTaboo]

No need to cheat when she wants yo play too.