Do you have a fear of rejection and abandonment?

[Anonymous]

I do. But not sure why because I had a happy , loving and stable childhood. So not sure where my abandonment issues come from.😕

[Anonymous]

Yes and no. I don't fear it so much as I'm always ready for it. My philosophy is "never love ANYONE so much that you can't live with out them". And "always be prepared to end the relationship at the drop of a hat". When it comes right down to it the only person you can fully trust in life, is yourself.

[Asker]

Great philosophy. I will try to keep that in mind.

[Guy13]

Yes, i have a fear of rejection and abandonment EVERY time I talk to a girl. Or I my girlfriend takes that breath and speaks first the first time I see her. It sucks to always have that "waiting for the bottom to fall out" feeling. Good luck with yours...

[Asker]

Thank you

[Hardworkingguy]

Sometimes we feel things that even we don't really understand why I used to feel something similar but what really helped me was talking to a psychologist perhaps you should try to find someone in that area to help you about this. It's not healthy to think that way about yourself nope

[Asker]

Thank you

[Hardworkingguy]

You're welcome feel free to talk to me about it anytime. Sometimes it helps to talk to someone about these things

[Sour-rose]

Abandonment? Not really, I'm out here on my own on my laptop and it feels... soo good. Rejectment? Yes. I have my own secrets that only A SMALL few know here. So knowing I could be rejected because of it... still cuts the rose petals. :c