Are you afraid of rejection?

[Anonymous]

I have started cold approaching strangers that are girls, and it is not bad at all getting rejected.

I asked 3 girls for there numbers and got rejected

That is not enough to see results, so i will keep trying and i will try to keep you guys updated.

Updates

5 mo

I asked 3 girls for their numbers so far this month, I will try to ask more girls for their numbers

[NathanDavis]

nope

but I've never ever in my life have just randomly approached a woman and asked for her number lmao...

I've actually never asked any for a number... either they approach me or I approach but I do so to get to know a bit more about her and so she knows about me... and I do so when I can sense she is also interested or intrigued about me.. and I do it at situations in which this is sort of expected (parties, reunions, or a very social setting) I never do it randomly at the streets when they're just going about their day, lol

and then I usually don't have to ask... if we click, we'll both make sure to meet again one way or another

[Screenwriter]

Well, there's rejection and there's REJECTION!

Not getting a woman's phone number is pretty rejection-lite. You don't know that person, and in all likelihood, you knew you weren't going to get a strange woman's number. No matter how lovely your 20 minute conversation was.

Real rejection is when you've been dating for months and someone says, well, I'm over you, or, I've found someone I like better, and, you didn't have a clue anything wasn't going well! Or it's been a year or two and you're dumped. Fa la la! That stings! You've got to take a TIME OUT to lick your wounds.

Being 19 and trying to pick up phone numbers for women you've met seem like par for the course: It's what you do with a likely 90 percent failure rate. But if you get 1 in 10 numbers, that rates as success! If you do better than that, you're doing well, in my opinion.

[OlderAndWiser]

Getting rejected enough times that you get over the fear of rejection is one of the keys to building self-confidence.

[Anonymous]

I wish i was confident as you

Congrats bro

[Brittanykeen88]

Yes a little bit

[LoveWorkingOut]

I think u dont need to be afraid

[Anonymous]

Not enough to not ask someone out