Unhappy with my gf’s behaviour. What do you think?

[Anonymous]

3 years of relationship and temporarily distant. She loves to talk to me a lot and we’re happy with everything except few these two.

1. When I say I visited a doctor, She doesn’t ask me anything about what doctor said or about medicines given. This happened 2,3 times.

2. She doesn’t show me her new things or ask opinions about it. She recently visited Dubai and bought a lot of new dress , shoes and edibles. Every time I had to ask her to show those.

Because of such actions from her, now my interest to talk to her is not as much as it used to. But she get really sad/worried when I ignore her or don’t pick up her calls.

what do you think about this? Am I overthinking or …..

Thanks

[Guy13]

It seems like you are overreacting. Let her have her privacy away and do not punish her. You are already treating her as Guilty/not trusting and then you punish her by not speaking.

These actions prove you don’t trust her and I would have some face-face words with you concerning relationship. Get it together

[Asker]

Umm but would you feel okay if you had some health issue, visits a doc and your partner asks nothing about it?

[Guy13]

I woukd take note. I would bring up over dinner and gauge her level of caring. At that time, I would make decisions and act situationally appropriate

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Making a mountain out of a molehill comes to mind & it seems like you’re looking for excuses to slowly call it quits when it comes to your relationship. If a relationship you still want & love is still in the air with you to MAN THE FUCK UP & overlook some of the little bullshit you speak of in your post.

[Asker]

but would you feel okay if you had some health issue, visits a doc and your partner asks nothing about it?

[Static_In_The_Attic]

I’m sorry to hear you have health issues & hopefully you aren’t the boy who cried wolf looking for attention on this one. As for your partner maybe instead of he asking she’s just wait for you to tell her what’s going on. Communication is the key & as for you I think it’s time to take the padlock off & talk to her.

[LazerBean]

If you aren't looking for a marriage partner, that I don't see why any of that would be a big deal. I definitely wouldn't marry something one like that, but thats coming from someone who thinks all forms of casual dating are a retched waste of time.

[Asker]

Im in a serious relationship and is looking to marry her. That’s why such ignorances hurts.

[In_Trance]

I think you both suck at communicating