Should I be concerned by her behaviour?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend and I recently moved into a flat together. Things are perfect.

We've also made friends with our neighbours, a couple too themselves.

First get-together, I didn't think much of it, but last night, I've noticed that she touches me a lot. Not just quick touches, but lingering ones on my upper back and arms...

She could be just tactile, but I find it a bit odd. I don't like being touched, unless it's my girlfriend.

Should I just let this slide?

[8UniquelyBoring8]

It's understandable that you feel uncomfortable with the neighbor's touch, especially since you've mentioned that you don't like being touched unless it's your girlfriend. It's important to trust your gut feeling on this matter and to communicate with your girlfriend about how you feel.


You can try to politely and gently address this with the neighbor and let her know that you prefer not to be touched. It's possible that she may not realize that her behavior is making you uncomfortable and may apologize and stop doing it. However, if the behavior continues or escalates, you may need to set firmer boundaries and distance yourself from the neighbor.


Remember that it's important to prioritize your own comfort and well-being in your living situation. Don't hesitate to discuss any concerns with your girlfriend and work together to find a solution.

[VanessaValentine]

Tell your girlfriend and say we arnt going to be around them any more and we don’t want anything to do with them. Your girlfriend will trust you more and you will have a better relationship.

[Anonymous]

Why are you even questioning this?