Why is it always when I open up and share my vulnerable side, people just ghost on me?

[Anonymous]

I have always been judged by people for being so reserved and introverted but when I open up they just ghost or use the knowledge against me. How can I build a healthy relationship with people if I can't trust them with the things that i share? Thoughts?

[Guy13]

It is likely that you are sharing your vulnerabilities too soon in the relationship. Be honest and true to yourself does not mean laying all your deep personal thoughts out for another. There has to be some trust built between both parties. It should be at least a month of getting to know one another without confessions of feelings or dark secrets. Don't talk emotional UNTIL she starts questioning and probing. This is when the woman is ready to know your intimate thoughts and feelings.

[oseveno]

Sometimes people aren’t ready or don’t know how to help with the deep stuff, especially if you haven’t been close for that long