What makes someone come back to you? Why would you come back to them?

[Anonymous]

Does that mean they can't get enough of you?
Do they want to keep you in their life?
Is it about love?
Or you just like the feeling they give you?

Just wondering what your experience is, why you would come back to that person and what it means.

[DaveJord]

Honestly, I never had someone try to get back with me that I did not think was desperate. I personally never tried to get back with any one myself, but I did try to reconnect with her for other reasons that had nothing to do with love.

[smashleyy]

some people become re-interested in you after you’ve moved on, stopped showing interest, or enter a serious relationship. That’s usually a clear sign of abandonment wounds. “Now that I can’t have you, I want you”. They aren’t seeking love they’re seeking validation

[Asker]

Oh now I get it. Thank you for explaining.

If this happens a lot and that person keeps coming back even if that person already went through a few relationships, and still after few years keeps coming back?

[Guy13]

Desperation, Basic Needs, Sense of Duty. Do not want to see them again.

[In_Trance]

They come back to you because they're out of options and because you allow them to