We’ve never had any sort of argument or anything like that with each other. The last thing she did was send me a Snapchat and a text message asking if I was okay, I never responded because I was in my own head and when I go to respond hours later I see that I’m blocked.
This isn’t the first time I took forever to respond. I would let her double text me and everything & truthfully, I had a sort of crush on her but never wanted to come off as clingy so I wasn’t always jumping to respond. But I really enjoyed her conversations and care about her a lot.
I now see that I was the one who was wrong because not only was I neglecting someone who cares about me and taking bad advice, but I wasn’t being true to myself either. And the true me would not have done that stuff earlier. So the question is this: should I give her a few days and try to reach out to her somehow and just be a true friend?
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Will be kind of hard since she blocked you everywhere. Unless you want to talk to her in person. What I can say is that I hope the situation taught you a lesson. You don't ignore people who care about you even if you're in your own head. If you have to, simply tell them you just need some time alone. But don't go reading their messages and not responding. That does send a very bad impression for them and makes them feel like you must not want anymore contact with them.
Now if she acted like a dick towards you and you let her know it but she didn't want to take it seriously, then you have every right to ignore her until she realizes what she did, and if she really cares she will make it right.
But that's not what your situation is. I would suggest you try to talk to her in person.
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