Should I write this apology letter to a girl that blocked me on social media?

[Anonymous]

I have her phone number (we have not called or texted since we have exchanged numbers back in 2019), but I have not been "allowed" to follow her on social media ever even since my three-month-and-counting social-media detox, but the blocking traces back to November.

Okay for all of the ignoramuses out there, it is not "technically" a letter, but it's a really, really long text sized at 2 kilobytes (that's about 2000 characters long!). The reason why I'm asking anonymously is because I don't want anybody tracking me down.

I have done so many things in the past to embarrass my co-worker. I will not go into detail for privacy reasons, but she blocked me on social media before I started constantly talking about her on my platforms.

Even before I followed her on social media, I would occasionally like her posts or watch her stories and she wouldn't mind.

The problem is I don't know how she will react. I have searched up similar results about apologizing to a girl after being blocked on social media and those have returned zero precise results for me.

I need to know because I am very curious and I do not want to get a restraining order for apologizing over text, which is the main reason why I saved my text as a DRAFT.

BIG FAT YES!

BIG FAT NO!

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The last time she messaged me was back in January but only to inform me that I need to stop talking about her.

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Decision is final. I will NOT write the apology letter to the girl.

Anyway, sigh, b-b-b-b-bird bird bird, bird is the word...

[Nawlins34]

1.) You're not writing this letter for her, you're writing it for your own closure. So read it one final time and delete it. She doesn't care about your letter.

" but she blocked me on social media before I started constantly talking about her on my platforms. " - Hint #1 that she doesn't value what you say.

"The last time she messaged me was back in January but only to inform me that I need to stop talking about her." - Hint #2 that she doesn't value what you say.

"I have searched up similar results about apologizing to a girl after being blocked on social media and those have returned zero precise results for me." - because there really isn't anything to confuse here. the person blocking someone doesn't do it to get a response!

"The problem is I don't know how she will react." - Okay, now you're lying to yourself.
"I need to know because I am very curious" - The truth starting to come out.

"I do not want to get a restraining order for apologizing over text, which is the main reason why I saved my text as a DRAFT." - I can 100% guarantee that you won't get a restraining order as a result of sending this text if you don't send it.

"Should I write this apology letter to a girl that blocked me on social media?" - You've already written it, you just want permission to send it.

No, because whatever is in that letter, she didn't ask to hear it. She's not demanding you to apologize because she can move on without your interaction.

Again, that letter is more for you than it is for her. She doesn't care.

Read it once more, then delete it and start your OWN healing process, move on.

[Asker]

G@G wouldn't let me delete the question because it was already "highlighted", so I selected your answer as MHO.

[OlderAndWiser]

You want to apologize so you can feel better but that won't necessarily do anything for her.

Send her your apology and it may open a pandora's box. Don't send it and nothing changes in your world. The safe bet is to leave her alone.

[Anonymous]

Dont mean to sound harsh... but you're a whole clown. Do you not think about your actions and consequences. Do you really think she will forgive a BULLY like you?😂😂
Just move on with your life. Like why do you even care? Apparently your life is sooo much better than hers that you can criticize someone you dont even really know from a can of paint. Gotta do better. And the first thing is to forget about this girl and let her live her life without you in it. It sucks to suck

[sheikalana]

It's been too long and she has probably moved on. I don't think it's worth it to waste your time. Just move on.

[Anonymous]

You'll just look pathetic to her and probably piss her off. Move on, she already has. Why are you even thinking about her at all at this point? My guess? Low self esteem. I see this too much with younger guys today. So fragile and so low on their self respect they harp on sh*t like this still after it's been like 3 years. Frankly? I'm embarrassed for you...

[Asker]

To be clear, she has only blocked me since last year, unfriended me on Snapchat in 2020 after a week

[Asker]

but also to be fair, she had a boyfriend at the time so I respected that, however she became single later on

[Opinion Owner]

I wouldn't talk to her. I'd be moving right on along with my life. Once you get into your late 20's you realize that shit ain't worth a damn. She's probably gotten her back blown out by other dudes already since then and enjoyed it without ever thinking about you. Consider this, she hasn't once thought about you that whole time, meanwhile you been harping on her. Does that sound healthy? Does that sound like a good place to be? I 'd say not, move on. You dont need her, you never did. That's just you telling yourself that shit. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, talk to another girl or a few. You say she's just a coworker to you... but was she really? Enough of this, move on and be stronger for it and focus and work on yourself or you will never garner the respect of women. That's a cold, hard, solid, fact.

[EnglishEuropean]

Don't send her 2000 words that she is going to delete without reading. Send her 5 words that she might actually read. How about "Sorry for being a dick".

Better still, leave her the fuck alone.

[007kingifrit]

i have no idea if you should apoligize... i don't know if you did anything wrong or not

[boggboss]

She clearly don't want you talking ro her so no

[jshm2]

She blocked you for good reasons, kiddo.