Pretty sure most gaggers here who know me know about my longtime boyfriend. Along with the fact my racist family hates him and makes it hard for me to see him. My question though is if your family hated your partner to the point of trying to keep you apart what would you do? Maybe they have a legit reason to hate him or her, or it's like my family who hate for a racial reason. I'm curious how others would do if they genuinely loved their partner would you stay with them and risk losing your family? Or breakup. I'm honestly seeing soon losing my family due to their dislike of him
I’m sure about wanting to be with my SO.
Her family already disowned her for wanting to marry me since I’m not a native-born conservative Muslim of their country.
I’ve literally traveled across the world to take care of her and support her, regularly renewing any permits or visas I need to be by her side.
My family is conservative Christian, so you can see where this is going.
Her family doesn’t approve of me. My family doesn’t approve of her.
But we have each other’s back, we’re going to get through this together, and we’re not letting anything pull us apart.
I believe that true love is worth fighting for.
I’ll do whatever it takes to make things work.
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Probably best to understand why from their pint of view.
It's difficult to see from the inside looking out but they know you and probably have reason as to why they think it's not a good match.
The other point is, when it's the right match, you won't have to lose your family.
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that would be very difficult and cause relational problems.
I would fight to be financial independent, then I will move out of their house and live my life. No one should decide who I love or who I wanna marry. They can advice, but not control me or hate me because of it. If you know Kobe Bryant the former Lakers Basketball player, he suffered that thing for so long, he was not even talking with his parents. Just because he married Vanessa. Until he died he was not on good terms with his family too, And You know what. He was a man, I got a huge respect for him outside of the court because of that. MARRIAGE got many challenges, besides everything what happened between them, they continued to be together until he died. Now that is pure LOVE. What would I advise you? Follow your heart girl. ✌🏾
It would depend on why they hate her. My sister was dating pretty subpar guys who weren't the type she should have dated. I think she needed to until she fixed her Cinderella complex, but the point is my parents disliked those guys for good reason. They would use her. She didn't see it until. after though.
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very rare for them to ever do that, but if they really did... then they would have to keep it to themselves, and I would make sure they do it too, lol
Fuck my blood family 2 are both racist and unpleasantly crazy, ones a cheat, and another thinks Jews rules the world secretly so I don't give a damn about their opinions the only one I care about is my nephew oh and my dog
I married her anyways 11 years ago and no longer have much contact with my family. Our mental health has undoubtedly benefitted from cutting them off.
I think you’re doing the right thing
They do lol I don't care what they approve of.
It's a tough choice, but I'd stay with him.
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