I’m 4 months pregnant and my boyfriend is angry and stressed about it?

[Thekmorrisonxo]

In the past two weeks my caring boyfriend who is the most kindest sweetest man has changed. He’s angry and stressed out all the time and he takes it out on me and he’s drinking most days and I’m also 4 months pregnant and this is affecting me in a bad way im stressed out and upset and I’m trying not to stress out cause I don’t want it to effect the baby but I don’t know what to do? I know he needs to get help but he says he isn’t going to get any what do I do?

[Guy13]

Sorry to hear that the father is stressed about it but maybe that is a good thing. At least he has some feelings about it. Remember this as one who interacts with Abortions post action. There will always be a death or a birth Date. If you abort, your heart etc will always celebrate a DeathDate, whereas, not aborting is a BirthDate. This never changes and the choice here will affect the remaining days quality of life.

I'm sure you will enjoy the child. Good luck !!

[Natmtze]

Does he have any childhood trauma? Maybe his parents made him feel unwanted as a child and he's probably scared about this new chapter since he's going to be a father.