I don't know what we are! Can someone help?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend of 3 years wanted to break up because the last five months have been long distance. He wanted to remain friends. I didn't want to break up and told him this. He said okay and that was the conversation. Now he is acting hot and cold. Like he'll be affectionate and then distant.

I DON'T KNOW WHAT WE ARE!

[Jamie05rhs]

Why are you currently long-distance? Can you explain why this situation came about?

[Asker]

He's military- air force

[Jamie05rhs]

Oh; I see.

[Jamie05rhs]

I don't think this relationship is going to work out. Too many uncertainties and unknown variables.

[Wise4myage]

He doesn't care about your opinion and intends to end things..

[Asker]

Then why doesn't he just do that? Why call me and talk like nothing is wrong? Then be distant the next minute. Like could he have doubts?

[Wise4myage]

I’d ask him that question.

[Asker]

I asked him, and he just kind of ignores the question and goes on talking. I don't understand.

[Wise4myage]

Then just say goodbye.