I don't know where we stand?

Question

I'll try to keep this short and sweet. I've been long distance dating this girl for about 6 months now. We've grown super close and even talk about marriage and having a life together (we plan on meeting up in person in a little less than 2 months). But, recently I don't know how I feel about her and this is only because I feel like she's growing apart from me? I feel as thought she doesn't want to talk to me as much anymore or she's growing apart from me. we used to fall asleep on the phone and now it feels like that's all coming to an end. Should I wait until we see each other in person to make my final verdict? I feel a little weary about asking her about where her mind is at.. I dunno. I love her and I don't want to lose her but her acting this way is making my feelings for her die down.. (what makes things worse is this very morning I sent her a text saying that I wasn't losing feelings for her and that I wasn't going anywhere :(.. I messed up).

Thank you for all of your replies! I greatly appreciate it :)

SteveSmith1985 · Accepted Answer

You need to talk to her. Plain and simple man. You need to talk to her about how your feeling and ask her where her mind is at (specifically and in particular!)

It doesn't make any sense to stick-your-head-in-the-sand. If its coming to an end, then what good are you doing yourself by putting-off finding that out for sure. But if there is something that's going on which is fixable, then you find out what it is, and you work through it. So, really, there is only the one thing to do here. You need to have an open and honest conversation about how you're feeling, and ask her how she is feeling. That is the only solution here. Anything else isn't going to help you. Period. Sorry man, but you need to have this conversation.