Men, is it hard to please you?

[Anonymous]

How hard is it to earn your love? What would make a woman good enough in order to be in relationship with?

[Fryday_Knight]

It is not at all hard to please me. You can name something small you would do for me and it would probably make me happy. But it's hard to earn my love, actual love. I've met a lot of beautiful and nice women, but I treat them like my friends. They confess within days or a week, invite me to stay over even, and I just decline and go back to doing my own thing.

But the better I know you and the more personal our talks get, the more I'm going to want to care for you, and it's only by that point that I'll start gearing up towards a relationship. To get me it's a lot of spending time together, allowing me to see you, allowing you to see me, not for my looks, status, or some quirk I got, just for me as a person. And even after that, and you confess your love for me, I might need some slaps to realize oh you're not a friend anymore but a girlfriend.

I'm in a relationship now and she trampled whatever walls I had and just walked right in. We just had so much in common time just sort of flew by.

[earthcitizen7]

It depends on the woman. My woman has to be nice. After this prerequisite, what I want is for my woman to love me. I want her to say, and show her affection for me in many ways. I want to know her. I want her to tell me her desires: What does she want in the bedroom? What does she want out of the bedroom? What can I say, and do, so that she knows I love her, and makes her feel safe?

I don't want to be with a woman who is clingy, whines for no reason, or who doesn't trust me. Do you know how many times a year I will want to look at your phone to check up on you? NEVER.

This is not so easy for a lot of people to do. People that are insecure, afraid of catching feelings, afraid to show their vulnerability, afraid to tell the truth, or people who have no idea what they want, they often have a VERY difficult time doing the above. You have to LOVE and RESPECT YOURSELF, before you can Love and Respect ANYONE else!!!

God created Our Universe with Love and Free Will. Use your Free Will to Love!

[AviatorTom]

Not really. We guys are fairly simple creatures. Women often overthink things and try to make things more difficult than they are.

[Asker]

Because we want to make sure we’re good enough and worthy of your love.

[AviatorTom]

That's a nice sentiment but unnecessary. We guys can determine if you are worthy... just be yourself.

[Guy13]

Yes. Not as difficult as the woman though. Made it to Rhode Island yet?

[Asker]

No 🤨

[Guy13]

K. Still routing for you

[Asker]

What does Rhode Island have to do with anything?

[NostalgiaSenpi]

In my case, no.

Lookswise - obese and or overly fat is not my thing. I'd go out with any ethnicity.

Personality - Loving, caring, respectful , responsible, communicative, honest, funny, loyal

Id prefer someone I can do things with but also has her own interests that she regularly does.

[inhua]

being attractive enough in their eyes and having good character is enough. men don't care about a woman's money, status and other things they care about in men

[OfMiceandMen]

Not at all, I am so easy going and not hard to please at all. If she thinks about me now and then, I'm a happy man.

[Mansearching]

Its really not hard. Common sense is main thing.

[Asker]

Don’t you want a woman to be perfect?

[Mansearching]

No one is perfect

[warsevf]

Its never difficult in my opinion, its just a puzzle, sometimes men and women solve it themselves. sometimes some one does it for them.

For me I think all I need is lots of emotions, even the bad ones.

[JDavid25]

No guys are actually pretty easy to please for the most part.. It doesn't require much at all to keep us happy.

[FilmGuy93]

Damaged people just suck the life force from everyone around them in general, but if you find a healthy man, he won’t be hard to please.

[Shamalien]

It’s not difficult to please us, but it can be difficult to win our hearts. Being nurturing, non toxic, and emotionally stable provides a good baseline for a healthy relationship

[AngryCarl2]

I'm easy to please. Just be attractive, affectionate, fun with a good sense of humour and unfazed by my insecurities.

[noohair]

Men are much simpler that women.
Basic needs like food and sex.

[LiamJHayden]

No, I am easy.

[Cheerfull009]

No, I am very loving person, who loves for love