Men, how do you like to be shown you’re desired?

[DreamCrescent]

and please don’t say blowjob. I’m talking early on in the dating process. how do i signal it’s going well and i like the rhythm

[HawkPerception]

Consistent communication. Not taking forever to reply to messages. That shows they're clearly interested and want to talk with me.

Physical touch. Showing she's not afraid to be in my space and giving me light touches whenever she wants.

Compliments (if they're genuine). Stuff about how attracted she is to me (mentioning my eyes, lips, body, etc.), or how intelligent or knowledgeable I am.

That's pretty much the gist of it.

[MannMitAntworten]

Probably different for every guy here but for myself, if we are going beyond the first date, be present. If we like each other that much I likely have placed you first in my world which you could tell without me saying it. Do the same. Don’t wait for shoes to drop. That is relationship sabotage.

[DreamCrescent]

and with a callback to my other question, no less 🫢

[MannMitAntworten]

Making sure I make it stick.

[ohsheeT]

Yes, rhythm is a very good word for it. Because everything flows, everything's melted together as one. And when you have that type of connection , I mean , every part of your body's connected like that

And when you can connect like that every little touch, every little kiss, every little look just in the other person's eyes, you become one. It takes you to the moon. It is the best feeling ever and you keep making that happen. So it gets better and better and better every time

[Lliam]

The look in her eyes.

After my first date with one girlfriend who I wound up living with for two years, I walked her to her door. She turned, looked up at me, put her hands on top of my shoulders, rose up on her tip toes, and gave me a tender kiss as I put my hands on her waist and pulled her close.
The same basic thing happened after my first date with my wife when I walked her to her car.
It showed that they were definitely interested in going on a second date and pursuing a relationship.

[DJB72]

Communication. Often and intimate - not sexually, but be real.

[Bad2daBone22]

Well I’m different from most guys so u won’t hear me say blow job. Lol. I want to be told things and shown that I’m appreciated. I’ll return the favor even more knowing that I’m not fighting a lost cause.

[Coden7]

Yeah I agree with this. I don’t want to feel like I’m dragging the relationship along. I want to look forward to starting a conversation, either my lead or her’s. Both of us excited to see each other. Us both having things we both want to do.

[DreamCrescent]

heard. thank you

[DreamCrescent]

what kind of things do you want to be told?

sounds like words of affirmation love language, by the way

[Bad2daBone22]

Yes very much so

[Shiprex]

She initiates and shows interest in being together without the expectations of being entertained.

[Anonymous]

I like her to initiate any kind of physical contact. Could be touching my hand, giving me a hug, or putting a hand on my arm or shoulder. Any of those shows she desires me.

[DreamCrescent]

i see. thank you

[jahaims]

Sexually or in general? Sexually just show excitement/enthusiasm and in general just be nice and appreciative.

[DreamCrescent]

i kinda meant nonsexually. but somewhat sensual i dunno

if you know what i mean

like not buy him a watch or bake him a cake. something intimate and personal but not adult rated

i don’t know what I’m looking for. i thought guys would have ideas

[jahaims]

His favorite meal and a good back rub then

[AngryCarl2]

Given that you wouldn't be into a man of my age, back in the day you could have just started smooching me out of nowhere.

[bowenw]

Lots of communication.

[DreamCrescent]

elaborate

[bowenw]

Message or call often so the other person knows you are thinking of them.

[DreamCrescent]

i thought guys hate that and feel smothered

i’ve been deliberately distant. letting him do the calling and texting

[HighValue]

A long tight squeeze/hug.

[DrPepper12]

DIRECTLY!!! WITH WORDS & DEEDS

[Jmmmfi4]

Well now I don't know what to say

[DreamCrescent]

pwhahahaha

[MeAndYouRightHere]

U have lips pic, so bj would be normal answer :))

[DreamCrescent]

smh 🤦‍♀️

[MeAndYouRightHere]

Its going well i think:))

[MeAndYouRightHere]

Come on, pm me:) dont be shy:)

[DreamCrescent]

and say what?

[MeAndYouRightHere]

Come to dm, ill say :)

[DreamCrescent]

you can message me

[MeAndYouRightHere]

I can't because of xper level, can u message first please?

[MeAndYouRightHere]

How hard it is to convince you to message me:)

[CubaPirate]

Whispers andbeck nibbles