How do you know if you’re in a dysfunctional relationship?

[Anonymous]

Question to man: what behavior/words from ladies that trigger a negative emotion for you?
Question to lady: what behavior/words make you wanna break up the relationship?

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+1 y

Isn’t it quite normal that during some point in your relationship, you feel hurt, lose trust, walking on eggshells, generate negative emotion when talking? How long will you tolerate those negative interactions with your partner? When is time to break up assuming you have young kids together.

[boggboss]

Pretty basic stuff not being able to communicate or being scared to bring up subjects because it will cause a issue being clingy to the point u say I need to check your phone or making statements like I trust your just not people around u like they can force u too cheat

[Asker]

The communication between the two in relationships changes as time goes by. Isn’t it so that the guy becomes more impatient with the lady and think they talk too much?

[boggboss]

Thats not somthing healthy in a working relationship no lol

[Guy13]

Violence, yelling, emotional rollercoaster 🎢, and walking on eggs shell.

[Asker]

If the lady has emotions and communicates to you, do you feel they should deal with their emotions by themselves rather than dragging you through it? What’s your definition of emotional rollercoaster from a SO?

[Guy13]

If one is committed to another in a relationship dealing with each other emotional baggage, as well as, emotions arising from the relationship itself is life. There's a level of respect and decencythat must be followed.

[Brando10222]

When they lie to you. Or hurt your feelings then apologise and keep on repeating it

[Mayo503]

Trust

[Mayo503]

Only you know when ….
You have had enough ….

[Asker]

I guess you are right. Everyone has different tolerance. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

[Mayo503]

No worries….

[Asker]

It’s kind of sad that one would feel more caring/support from a stranger than from someone living under the same roof.

[Mayo503]

Yea but that’s down to him the way he see things or feel things
But he should be able to talk to you about anything what he don’t like and does like…
The same for you too…
But you shouldn’t be walking on egg shells that’s wrong in it self…