Is it okay to be friends of the opposite gender while in a long term relationship?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[Guy13]

If I was in a relationship and discovered your Bestie was a man then I would be disappointed and upset. Firstly, I would expected you to know that no guy is comfortable dating a woman with one , much less many, best guy friend. Secondly, "I can't trust this woman if this is her decision-making process. She think I am stupid keeping men on the side in case we blow up at best. I bet she F-'in him or them."

This is erality for a good guy who isn't after just one thing.

[Chad345]

Just being friends is a no brainer. If course it's fine. Unless your partner is really insecure.

[Chad345]

Thanks for the MHO.

[xHoneyxBeex]

Of course, as long as it's strictly platonic, interactions are not inappropriate, and nothing is being hidden from each other's spouse/partner.

[Fanfare690]

Absolutely but boundaries MUST be present and respect

[AnonGiraffe]

As long as the friends are also in committed faithful monogamous relationships.

[Anonymous]

Yes, but your partner should approve. I wouldn't if they didn't. And likewise they have to trust you. It's all about RESOECT on both your parts.

[Jamie05rhs]

The better question is why would you need to be?

[Anonymous]

Obviously we need backup plan..

[dudeinohio]

It is inappropriate

[Guardian45]

Yes, why not?

[dean53AU]

Yes its ok