Do you think the secret to getting people to not messing with you is not caring?

[Anonymous]

[AngryCarl2]

Not caring should be a given. The secret is to ignore their babble.

[AngryCarl2]

Thanks for MHO!

[riverrat3]

That is what I do

[riverrat3]

thanks

[Sunssong]

The secret to destroying hate is its opposite love.
There was this girl who worked as a cashier. She was so polite and nice to everyone.
Two people who were on the run for murder came into the store with the intent to harm.
Instead this girl was so nice to them, they decided not to do anything bad. No one even knew they were on the run. We later found out their intent and they said they didn't do anything because the cashier was so nice to them.

You see what she did was use a weapon that is unseen. She used kindness to alter the consciousness of the two men. Love and hate cannot exist together. She gave them love in their consciousness which dispelled the hate.

All of us use the golden rule however we seem to not believe in it. We treat people mean left and right because they have treated us mean thinking that is going to stop them. All that does is give them more emotional reason to keep going. Emotion rules all.

With all that said, HateyouxD's advice can still work but it's using force. You'd have to scare the bullies into stopping.

[HateyouxD]

Nah. It's not the secret.
Cause I ignored people I didn't give af about. didn't reply or nothing. They still harrassed and bullied me everyday✌🏼

[HateyouxD]

But go ahead and fight back.

[HateyouxD]

That'll do it

[HateyouxD]

What's annoying is the people seeing I dont care and continue to harass me. Like do y'all not have a fucking life. But shit will get real when people cross the fucking line. And dont have any clue what I have up my sleeve

[jenna980000]

Maybe
It's important to find out who's worth caring for and who isn't

[boggboss]

To some degree yes

[Asker]

Usually when I gave attention to people who didn't like me it gave them the power to think they can still mess with me. People know who they can get to and who they can't.

[KathrynTaylor]

Yes I do