If you are considered kind and helpful/thoughtful and keep running into people who want to cause you problems?

[Anonymous]

If your friend says "people don't like you"

How would you feel and would you believe them?

[Anonymous]

One of my "friends" said that to me in highschool once.
I forgot what I did, but he said, "This is why no one likes you. Seriously, everyone I talk to says they don't like you dude."

Of course I laughed and said ok, because I knew it was actually him that no one really liked.
Classic case of projection.

Unless you're just awful and you know it, when people say things like that, it's really just a reflection of themselves

[Asker]

Damn man
But In this case I don't know what I do or did. I notice when I stand up for myself people "don't like me" I'm very calm with my actions. Men try to get me jealous I tell them peace if I play the same game they get jealous and chase after me all of them are jokes. I've had rich guys, sexy guys broke men try to run me but they can't and I have a cousin or friend or mom saying people don't like me. How? LOL I'm the sweetest but don't come at me. I'm the right one

[Asker]

I know I sound completely fucking arrogant right now and you have to excuse me. People have been gaslighting tf outta me all my life Nd I think they are scared of the power I have

[Opinion Owner]

You don't sound arrogant, you sound pissed and you have every right to be.
This really all sounds like a "them" problem, some people are just toxic.

[Asker]

Appreciate you

[Opinion Owner]

Sure!