What do you think about getting back together a third time?

[chiquita]

What do you think about getting back together a third time?

[MidnightOwl57]

If you do not work out the problems you had before that broke you up, you are wasting your time. Couples counseling or classes in communication are in order, if you seriously want this to work.

The only silly thing to do is to do something the same way and expect it to change or result differently each time you keep doing it. Nothing can change without a change. Things don’t work if things aren’t being done differently. Find the things you can accept, compromise, tolerate and things you can work on and things you can’t look past.

Make your own mistakes and experiences to learn from. It’s your life. Your choice. The only person who can cut you short of your happiness is yourself. Do you want to live experiencing? Or live fearing? I’m not saying to jump right back into that relationship, I’m saying to basically figure it out by looking at how it ended, why, was there problems that could of been done differently if you both had properly discussed it, is it really over or is their love and a relationship left that’s salvageable? Are you wanting them back out of fear that you won’t find someone better? fear of being alone? Or do you really love them and can't imagine being without them? Do you love them enough to try and fight for them again? you probably need some time to work on yourself to figure things out. If you choose to go back to them be sure about it. Don’t half ass do it, be all in, really give it your best shot. If you choose to not, know the value of the loss and the consequences and accept it and follow through. Accept that you may lose them forever.

[DizzyDesii]

I think... never again 🤣 fck! you can tell when i was really into someone because those mfs had unlimited chances. Dez Des Lu Tom JT. No no no 😂 Everyone else was one and done. But somehow these 5 mfs were the “maybe he’s changed” to the 3rd power. Nooo lmao. And the breakups usually lasted for a max of 6 hours. I think twice did a breakup last 2 days and one was a little over a week. Nothing ever longer than any of those. Im so glad i stopped making the same mistakes because with every chance, they returned worse off than before.

[Guy13]

I would not do that. If there has been a dating period and a break-up once then that is probably not a good sign, however, there is a chance of possibly making that work on the seconf go around. Obviously, it did not come together in a healthy and meaningful way the second time. It is time to either part ways totally or be distant friends.

This sounds psychologically unhealthy and it should be refrained from.

[coachTanthony]

3 times is not a charm when it comes to relationships. Bad Bad Bad idea unless you are just using them as a place holder until someone real comes along. Many people do this because they enjoy their company, sex etc but know deep down they could never do this long term.

[OlderAndWiser]

Getting back together the first time is stupid, getting back together the second time is real fuckng stupid, and getting back together a third time should be grounds to have you declared incompetent.

[denisenic01e]

Nothing will change if it didn't work the first two times.. If he treated you less than how you feel you deserve, then the bad treatment will just continue because you gave him ANOTHER "chance" to screw up... I which makes a lot of narcissists believe that they'll just manipulate you into 50 MORE chances.

Just sace yourself the BS, and cut the cord now, and move on to someone that you don't have to break up with for change to occur.

[Anonymous]

People break up for a reason or more. The second time maybe. I once got back with an ex whom I had dated briefly as a teenager, it didn’t last long and after all the hour long phone calls we remembered why we ended to begin with.
My advice unless you are confident enough to bet on this guy being the one or something, I wouldn’t waste the time going backwards.

[SunnyRS]

Practically speaking I don't think that's a smart move, as if it didn't work out two times, what's the possibility of it working the third time?
But as a hopeless romantic as I am I think if you think there is even one percent chance of that person being the one for you why not try?

[DermalPunch]

Sure, might as well kill whatever is left of your clearly toxic union. Perhaps tourbillon both realise its time to be done for good. Hope you survive!

[TenderFantasy]

It depends. If there's been actual, FACTUAL, REAL, change, then maybe. If not, forget it.

[xHoneyxBeex]

Makes no sense…if it didn’t work the first two times, why would it work a third time? Sometimes it’s better to just let things (and people) go.

[cherryxox99]

On and off relationships happen because there isn't a clean break, booty calls, "missing you" toxic texts from exes who can't bear to see you having a better life with someone else.

Be smart and move on

[EmmaMary]

Personally there wouldn't be any "getting back" for a second time.

[Anemone978]

Don't do it it it didn't work the second time it sure a fuck ain't gonna work the third LOL

[Anemone978]

*if it

[CelestialDaisy]

Fool you once shame on them, fool you 2+ shame on you I’d say

[lightbulb27]

unless something has changed, some results...

[Horse-girl]

Probably not a good idea unless the breakup was to do with something out of your control.

[nudetru]

why the he'll not... that's a good thing if thought through n there's deeper motives than just superficial ones

[NostalgiaSenpi]

I wouldn't be getting back together a second time. Third time is going to fail like the first two, unless the issues are resolved.

[rabbitzzz]

3rd time 4rth time whatever. You've had history work it out.

[AsaKyo]

If it didn't work twice, it's never gonna work

[douride2]

If it didn't work twice why would you want to try a third time?

[TacosRAwesome]

Basically the definition of insanity.

[Kinkyhubby]

Did you not learn from the 1st 2 time?

[LiamJHayden]

Not even a second time.

[mathew1543]

Maybe don't go for it

[JosyJosy]

Like a comedy drama.

[ashish804]

its purely to fuck

[Anonymous]

maybe