Would or have you taken back someone who cheated on you?

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Quackthulu2 · Accepted Answer

Nah, what use is a guy whose balls are already in my pickling jar?

TacosRAwesome · Accepted Answer

I'd rather get kicked in my nuts.

SteveSmith1985 · Answer

No I would not take someone back who cheated. Hell no I have not ever taken somebody back who cheated. I take that shit seriously. No way.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I have... unfortunately.

It's changed me as a person... I didn't just let that shit go, and I started cheating back X10 fold. Kids, money, all the other stuff... it's what makes me look with disregard to people on a site like this that just flimsily say, "just leave them," as if it's really just that easy. It's like their little brain or total lack of experience with real life can't grasp bigger pictures. ... seriously... they make it sound like teenagers living with their parents and are just dating in middle school. Yeah... just that fucking easy? Fucking retards.

Sometimes there are reasons you're going to just have to deal with. At the same time, the people that give those sorts of mindless answers also tend to all be fucking the same man/woman and calling themselves people that respect themselves too much to do such a thing... hypocrites much they are.

Like my rule of thumb advice for a dude or chick that just got cheated on... just keep fucking her or him (if you do want to keep fucking them)... but start looking for something else. You'll find it and be able to drop them like a bad habit when you decide to cheat back or after you have already for a while. I mean like really, should I feel bad that they're getting a dose of their own medicine? It's morally wrong I guess... but the real world doesn't care or give a shit about morals. Just do better. 😂

VIVANT · Answer

I’ve never been cheated on so I can’t say for sure but I think my views maybe are different than before where my impression was be should have left me not cheated as clearly they don’t want to be here

On the other hand now I’ve seen how casual people are with sex in general (I’m not) so if they were safe physically, and just didn’t tell me I wouldn’t know and maybe it wouldn’t matter 🤷🏻‍♀️

I really dk honestly. I think it depends on soooooooooooo many factors.

MarkHrdman · Answer

Yes & yes.

I was once told that by my ex that she doesn't know what happened and that she was accused of sleeping with someone.

It just happened to be with the guy she ditched me for at a party to argue with me and tell me to leave.

Ignorant, its easier to not believe something.

Especially from someone saying they dont remember but we all know what happened.

Thats not the first and thats not the last of my ordeals involving exs. It gets worse.

Some wounds leave a mark, so being scared for life by an experience in this circumstance doesn't mean you can show it.

megabamse · Answer

Well... To cheat means that something was wrong. And what was wrong can mean any number of things and is not universally the same for everyone or any situation. It might be how the two or one part have been treated by the other or both. It can be emotional trauma that have gone untreated and created lots of issues. No matter what was the reason for the other to cheat it always mean something is broken and got broken. They need help, maybe both need help. Just because i might have broken up with someone because they cheated don't mean i never loved them or had these fantastic memories with them. The break-up is a reactions of pride and hurt that we want to protect yourselfs from, and we want to escape that feeling. A trust was broken. Pain can be healed, trust can be mended. And people can change when they put work and effort into it. I would not take just anyone who have cheated back, but in some cases there might be a chance for that to happen.

Fireguy17 · Answer

no I haven't, nor do I think I would.
My first wife cheated on me, I caught them together, he was backing into the closet trying to put on his pants, and I had a gorfried that also was cheating on me.
I left in both cases.
After probably 20 years my ex wife and I talk and are friends now, no thoughts on getting back with her, and the Ex girlfriend stopped in my store a while after I left, I think she figured out that she had it pretty good, I thought long and hard about it, but she never admitted what she had done nor apologized for it.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

Never in my life have I taken someone back that cheated on me, nor would I. Once the trust is broken, you lose faith in that person, it never comes back in my books.

I make it my vow not to break her trust, the least she can do is extend the same respect/courtesy to me.

RolandCuthbert · Answer

Mmmmm. . . that is a tough one.

I don't know, if I could take someone back. I think I could forgive them however.

But you have to know this about me. I have hurt a lot of women with cheating. And I am not proud of it. I am deeply ashamed of it. And I know I could never make it better.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

No! She cheated on me and has proven to me that she can't be trusted!! I have to have trust to be in a loving relationship with someone! Once she cheats on me, the best we can be is casual friends. That goes for anyone that's proven that I can no longer trust them!

LavLavLuv · Answer

Not a chance

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

Nope, there was one girl who cheated on me and the guy ended up being an ass, then she started talking to some bum.

She called me up one day and we ended up having sex at her place. She asked me to come back and I told her that when I look at her now I don't see the woman I fell in love with anymore.

Gent207-2 · Answer

Yes 3 times, but only because the 1st time I couldn't necessarily prove it, second and third time she confessed. Obviously the 3rd time was the last straw.

that same weekshe totalled her car, got thrown out ofher rich parent's house and moved in with her new prince charming. 6 months later she got knocked up and they got married that same year. She now has three kids and a crap ton of assortment of pets including a scorpion 😳, oddily enough.

Sun_Kim-Ai · Answer

I did once.

I understood her motivations and I agreed with them, plus she remained indebted with me regarding that and is still a loyal supporter nowadays.

It almost makes me want to try and set up someone else to be honest...

Paige90 · Answer

One time if they were truly sorry for what they did and I believed they would never do it again.

petitedollbabee · Answer

Yes, 2 separate times with 2 separate people. And both times it resulted in me being cheated on again. So safe to say I’ve learnt my lesson.

loveslongnails · Answer

I've never had a break up that involved cheating, so I wouldn't know. But then I got into an open relationship, and that became a moot point. So I will probably never know because monogamy isn't the hallmark of love for me.

Mangospacho · Answer

Wow. So it was that bad then…he didn’t just get the toilet treatment - he got the public toilet treatment. Don’t take him back, though. You’ll never have the same respect and affection for him after you’ve seen him in a public toilet like that.

Finchie40 · Answer

I tried once. with my one ex girlfriend when I was younger that cheated on me , and I realized things weren’t the same , so I ended it with her , that was my answer to never take a cheater back after her

EmmaMary · Answer

No absolutely not... Hell would need to freeze over first... Period.

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

It would be very hard to stay with someone if they're dead

Horse-girl · Answer

I don't think I would, they cheated for a reason and could do it again.

johanmdsn · Answer

Absolutely not. Cheating is an act of dishonesty, which is a characteristic in a person. How are you going to truly love and respect that person without trust?

Vegasrunner · Answer

Women will typically take a man back if his value is high enough. Men will take a women back if they don't have better options.

BCA6010 · Answer

I did, once. It was a mistake and a waste of effort though, because the trust was permanently damaged/gone.

Lliam · Answer

Nope. They've already shown their character. Cheats are liars and I would never trust her again. I wouldn't want to touch her again.

BrookeS · Answer

No I wouldn’t. There are always more dicks and pussy out there

Jennz6 · Answer

Maybe I would if I had good sex with that person

worldscolide · Answer

Never. For that kind of transgression, i never give second chances.

rosemilk · Answer

that's for young, dumb people

mark000h · Answer

No chance. I would feel betrayed and if I was in love, heartbroken.

Vaporvan · Answer

Never. That's a breach of trust and unforgiveable.

bolverk · Answer

Would never take back someone who cheated, its one and done, if they did it once they'll do it again.

Iron_Man · Answer

No, that’s one of the ultimate betrayal in a relationship

tfan1 · Answer

Cool looking toilet. Don’t think I’ve seen that bowl shape before? Is that taken here in the US or another country? 🙂

Alex8736 · Answer

Absolutely Not because history always repeats itself... "Screw me over once shame on you", "Screw me over twice Shame on me"

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I never took back any ex I ever had.

CreatingWonders · Answer

No I wouldn’t, if someone cheated on me they’re now dead to me the same as if they lied or hurt me physically or mentally. I’m done.

PatriceONeal · Answer

Taking back someone who cheats on you is only showing them you will put up with bad behavior and they will do it again.

Pete671 · Answer

Yes but just for the sex and companionship, I wouldn't take them seriously,,,

LiamJHayden · Answer

No. I'll forgive, but I will not continue the romantic relationship.

Miristheiss · Answer

Hell no. They would be forever dead to me.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

No, that's just a mistake.

PepePatriot · Answer

No I would never do that

CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS · Answer

Yes I learned the hard way

Summeroflove · Answer

WTF 😳

QuietRunner · Answer

depends mostly no, I don't think so

Guardian45 · Answer

Hmmm. That's NOT GSP!

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

No, I'd hate with every fiber of my being.

Heterosketero · Answer

Never. Ever.

Batsy01010101 · Answer

D--- can rot in hell where she belongs

whereismyjohnny · Answer

I wouldn't.

Nuthouse · Answer

I have

ChiTown33 · Answer

Nope, Never.

eagle1951 · Answer

never happen

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