True or false, if I'm not in his or her social media he or she is not my boyfriend/girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

Doesn't count for relationships less than a month ;)

True

False

[Blackcupcake]

a relationship isn’t about social media, that is teenage shit, but I never thought of it as that even as a teen lol. I had social media when I was younger and I posted a lot on there but never ever did I ever post my relationship status or a dude on there despite having dated 3 dudes during the time before I deleted my social media. none of them cared because they were mature enough to understand that, whether I post them or not does not define how i view our relationship at the time and they were happy enough with the fact that i was actually spending time with them rather than focusing on social media lol

[Asker]

So you're dating a dude... He posts gym selfies w ripped abs, his car, his buddies, pics of him on vacations, some of which maybe you even were there, but he filters you out... You are ok w that?

[Blackcupcake]

none of the dudes I have dated were that into social media, and even if they were and wanted to post me, I would ask them not to. if I want my pictures all over social media then I can create my own accounts and post there. I’ll repeat again, social media doesn’t not define my relationship.

[Jdjfjcjj]

I got one better if they even have social media don't even consider them at all for relationship

[Anonymous]

You should be old enough to know better.