I stopped doing nice things like taking my wife out for dinner. It's a bad sign?

[DeanFreed]

[Bolt1104]

I’d like to know the reason why but yes this is very bad especially if you both love each other. I bet this will begin to hurt both her and you. The relationship between you guys might begin to fall and she and you might loose interest in each other. My boyfriend has only ever really did nice things for me a couple of times and it hurts me because we have been together now for a couple of years and I’ve lost some interest because I’ve done nice things for him ever since we started to date. But I wish mine would do more for me. Please don’t stop doing this for her sir. It will hurt you both. 🥺

[SeriouslyFunny00]

Why? Life is too short. Please continue doing nice things sir. :)

[Jdjfjcjj]

You'll hear you dropped the ball but reason she mentioning now vs before probably shows she upset about more than just that

[Nikki1989]

Yes, you have dropped the ball.

Game over.

[Kalyani22226]

Yes.. it hurts.. my boyfriend stopped doing nice things which he did at the beginning of relationship.. now i lost interest on him a little bit

[serious]

Why did you stop doing these nice things.

[DeanFreed]

Things were said over the years
The feeling no longer there
It felt at times I was being used
She has a caustic tongue
It will be painful I know to separate but that might be the best
It's hard to just up stickers with price of property
And having children I love

[DeanFreed]

I meant up sticks
Like the tent

[serious]

I understand

[DeanFreed]

The irony is the kids turned out great.. I think.. So far

And we could have tried to re ignite things

But things got much much worse all of a sudden
So it is game over

[DeanFreed]

In ways the magic was gone from very early
There was a baby and that was reason for getting married when I think back now

[fonduegirl]

Yes it's quite bad

[Freyke]

Reason?

[In_Trance]

terrible sign