My wife and I seperated about 3 months ago. We have been together 9 years married for about 8 months. she left me for another guy.. We also have 2 children together. There has been a lot of off and on texting between us. she's been using the Hot/Cold treatment with me. She still flirts with me, sometimes lets me kiss her and other times she ignores my calls texts or just acts like she doesn't want 2 get back together. Yesterday i convinced her when she comes to get the kids on Sunday to stay for dinner she agreed. then I asked if she we could fool around she told me she did kinda miss that. My question here is when she comes over how should i act towards her? She lost trust and connection towards me. How can I get that back so we can get back together?